I am sorry that I was late to reply. Frankly, I was not immediately sure this story was real. Based on what I read, I stand by my recommendation. You have a right to be happy, feel safe, and be loved. Do not let anything get in the way of that. Be strong.
Thank you Tincup. Yes this story is 100 percent real. I know it’s pretty far fetched but I promise you it’s real. Appreciate your comments
Well, first I want to say that I am against abuse of any kind.
On the other hand I find power play relationships quite complicated.
I think the relationship that Emma and Kev have is perfect, and I think communication is key.
Sometimes we hate and desire the same thing.
As you said:
"What I like most about her now is her absolute dominance. She doesn't play. Everything will be done her way or else, I'll see."
"the little bit of a boy I have felt degraded. The girly, submissive side of me was happy that she was happy. It's about her feelings and happiness and I know that."
I myself hate and love the same things: real dominance, obeying orders, cuckolding (sometimes it makes me very jealous and other times it takes me to heaven), chastity, spanking, humiliation, suffering...
I think communication is key.
I also believe that the natural tendency of human beings is to go as far as they are allowed, and giving up power makes things complicated.
You have to communicate and respect each other. Both difficult things to do.
I'm not sure why you bring up Emma and Kev. There does not appear to any meaningful similarities in the relationships.
This feels more like a hostage situation with the coincidence of the victom having a femdom fetish. I read his messages as a plea for help and so far there has been very little support from the folks on this site.
Hi, Tincup,
I don't know, I think he is really confused. Maybe they should clarify their thoughts.
In any case, I believe it is not possible to spank or force to become a Sissy a man if he does not want to.
I think they both really like strong emotions. Too much?
I hope I'm not being unfair, Stillfindingit.
For me, your story has many wonderful ingredients:
Learning by the Mistress from other more experienced ones.
Training.
Discipline.
Absolute domain.
Corner time.
Humiliation.
Spanking.
Infidelity.
Jealousy.
Submission.
House chores.
I would like to ask you, Stillfiguringout:
Have you told him in the past that you would like her absolute domination?
What is your relationship now on a day-to-day basis? Is there love?
How does she organize household chores?
When does corner time send you and what do you feel?
Do you have the right to satisfy her orally?
How do you think your relationship with your ex will be from now on?
Have you managed to mitigate your jealousy?
Do you feel proud or satisfied knowing that she has had a lot of sex?
Thank you very much.
No she has never actually told me I would be completely dominated it just progressed over time to that dynamic she has always been a very dominant woman and the relationship brought it out fully.
Our relationship today is very good. Yes I feel loved when she dominates me totally and corrects me. She tells me all the time that she loves her Sissy Girl very much.
I work five to six days a week. She does the chores that need to be done until I get home and can take over all of them until it’s my bedtime
Corner time puts your mind in a special place. You can actually think clearly once you settle down and can reflect upon what you did wrong and to never do that again and to also focus on her needs so she will be happy.
No I don’t have any sexual rights with her at all. The last time she let me orally please her was a year and a half ago. She edges me all the time by grabbing my cage or lightly pinching my nipples she knows it drives me crazy.
I really don’t have any major jealousy issues it wasn’t her having awesome sex that bothered me it was her lying for three years and not including me that hurt me so much. She is free to have sex with whoever she pleases as long as we communicate and I know.
Yes I was happy for her having such good sex with such a beautiful pecker like I said she made me suck everyday for a while starring at pictures of his pecker so I know exactly how big and thick it is. She says he is a real man and I have a little Sissy clit all the time.
Thank you very much for your answers. I really love what you tell.
So, from the moment you get home from work, do you do your chores alone until it's time to go to bed?
When does she put you in corner time? After spanking? For how long and in what position? In the living room?
Since when is she free to have sex with whoever she wants?
Is sex with your ex your first cuckolding?
Does she control you when you go out with your friends? How?
Is it his ex who doesn't want you to have sexual rights with your wife or is it her?
Thank you!
Yes when I get home I greet her and go to my room and change into girl clothes and put my plug In I do the dishes from the day and clean the kitchen. Then I tidy up the living room and bathrooms. She is usually watching TV and texting on the phone the entire time. From there I get on the floor in front of her recliner and rub her feet and calves for an hour. Then I go to my room and get on my knees and practice sucking for an hour. Then I will take a quick bath and if she doesn’t need me for anything else I go to sleep.
she puts me in corner time on my knees in the bedroom for no less than 30 minutes after a spanking. If I am good I only get my maintenance spanking once a week so only get corner time once a week then
She has always been free to have sex with whomever she wanted. It was the lying to me for over three years that caused all these problems. When we first got together I had a 6 1/2 inch pecker now I don’t ever get to see but I bet it’s only 3 So yes a big thick pecker for sure feels good to her
Yes her having sex with her ex is the first culckolding for me that I know of. My Mistress having great sex with someone actually makes me happy because she is happy
I don’t get to go anywhere alone except the grocery store without her. If we do go by any of my old friends she is very controlling. She tells me what to drink or eat and when we are leaving.
she has never told me the reason directly for no sex between us but I kind of got that feeling because after she started seeing him according to the time line is when she cut me off. I don’t know if it is her or his decision
Sounds like you have everything you want, such as it is. Good luck.
Hello,
Very interesting!
One question, what was the relationship like before adopting an FLR? Could you go out with your friends?
Before she also told you what you could eat and drink and stuff like that?
Were you a good lover? Were you good in bed?
It must be exciting as soon as you get home to start serving your Mistress, and do chores dressed as a girl with a plug on. I suppose that must awaken your submission and your sensitivity.
Has she already resumed conversations with her ex? Have they seen each other yet? How do you feel?
Do you think she will tell you about the things she does with him or you won't be involved?
Does your ex have a partner?
Thank you.
Life before our FLR was very good But the stress of life was always beating down upon her dealing with job kids grandkids Just life. The day I came home and she was crying broke my heart and that when I started researching and discovered FLR. I studied it and approached her with the idea and she was very receptive. We started slow but then things started falling into place once she put a chasity cage on me. When you have been caged for a long time you will do just about anything to make her happy to maybe gain release and sex.
I always thought of myself as a good lover. My pecker was 6 1/2 inches and thick but I bet if she took my cage off and measured it it might be 3. I can’t tell you what goes through a Mistress’s mind but she is well aware of her actions and has a reason behind everything she does.
At first I really didn’t like coming home and putting a plug in and putting on my maids uniform and immediately getting to cleaning but over the years I have come to find comfort in it. It kind of like my safe place. I know if I do what she says and do a good job cleaning and rubbing her feet I will have an easy night until I go to bed. Yes my submissiveness has gone way way up. I will do anything she asks immediately and say yes Mistress. I find myself even being submissive to her friends and family a lot
you asked about friends. I did have several good friends but have let them slip. When you stay In Sissy headspace constantly you get to where you are not as comfortable talking guy stuff with guys if that makes any sense. It’s like you want a deeper conversation with them now. I relate a lot better with women but unless I have girl clothes on they see me as a man and don’t want to have girly conversations with a man when I really need girl tips my Mistress gladly tells me and shows me the correct way of doing things. Yes I really enjoy those times with her because she is giving me attention.
yes she has resumed talking to her ex but has not met with him lately I know it’s only a matter of time
yes I think she will tell me now that we have talked and communicated about our relationship and my needing to know and wanting some type of involvement even if it’s just her telling me how good it was.
Hope this answers what you are looking for.
"My pecker was 6 1/2 inches and thick but I bet if she took my cage off and measured it it might be 3."
Yeah ... not buying it. That's not how it works. Shrinkage, if any, is temporary. I know. I'm caged 24/7/365.
Yes, thank you very much.
It must be so arousing seeing someone in corner time with a red well spanked butt.
Subhubphx well I am in a micro cobra 3D It never comes off. So no I have not measured it but just looking at it. In the cage it is not at all what it use to be. Is it temporary I don’t know because it never comes off. Maybe one day she will unlock me and leave it off to see 🤷♀️ But it’s all reality in my mind Thank you for the comment
