Question for all the hotwives I’ve been locked since early may she hasn’t let me have a real orgasm I’m super desperate she will take the cage off to tease but if I cum I get punished. What is chastity and orgasm denial so important to the wife or gf in these dynamics and why do I feel like a super cuck with no way out lol.
Chastity intensifies everything!
It keeps you focused on her. Her needs, her body, her decisions. Physically, it builds that helpless sexual tension that fuels your obedience and adoration. Denying your orgasm while she gets ravished by another man sharpens the contrast in your roles. It’s not just kinky—it’s symbolic. Even if cuckold dynamic isn't part of your relationship, chastity is magic and transformational.
She teases you and takes the cage off just to watch you squirm? That’s dominance in its purest form. And punishment if you cum? That reinforces your surrender. You feel like a "super cuck with no way out" because you're right where she wants you; owned, desperate, obedient and squirming in your seat and it’s so hot. This isn’t just about denial, it’s about evolving together.
Check this one out:
https://evolvingyourman.com/2025/04/06/chastity-as-cuckold-preparation/
I want to cum and fuck so bad I get why I can’t tho I am not an alpha I read about a world where most men are in chastity but the bulls breed our wives but the cage is a red flag to the bull our job is to be devoted their job is to give her screaming orgasms.
Chastity intensifies everything!
This keeps you focused on her. Her needs, her body, her decisions. Physically, it creates that helpless sexual tension that fuels your obedience and adoration. Denying yourself an orgasm while she's being raped by another man accentuates the contrast between your roles. It's not just kinky, it's symbolic. Even if the cuckolding dynamic isn't part of your relationship, chastity is magical and transformative.
She teases you and you remove the cage just to watch you squirm? That's pure domination. And punishment if you cum? That reinforces your submission. You feel like a "super dead-end cuckold" because you're exactly where she wants you: owned, desperate, obedient, and squirming in your seat, and it's so exciting. It's not just about denial, it's about growing together.
Look at this one:
https://evolvingyourman.com/2025/04/06/chastity-as-cuckold-preparation/
Is it possible to switch to a Consenting Adult game?
In my relationship, my wife is very romantic, she likes my Apollonian physique and her physique is more compact, broad bone structure, wide pelvis, small A-shaped breasts, linked to abuses of authority by her Mother and grandmother who transformed children and grandchildren into piglets, telling them that sex is dirty, that sex should only be used for procreation and that one should refuse oneself to one's Husband, while giving Him copious meals and plenty of alcohol to keep him close to Oneself.
This morning I made love to Her, she prefers the morning, in the evening she collapses from sleep, giving Her a beautiful orgasm then coming inside her at the moment of this long and magnificent orgasm that she offered me in an abandonment and a letting go where she succeeded in overcoming the conditioning of her mother and I thank her for that, I love her.
I sleep naked, she wears nightgowns, or she is naked underneath.
I am looking for a certain personal and sexual fulfillment from my wife, thirty years together, beautiful children and the desire to see her reach a certain sexual maturity and a peak of her physical fullness!
But here's the thing, the inquisitive side of her mother and maternal grandmother who instilled an ideal submissive wife side in a bygone world after two world wars, mistress of the house and cook devoted to the patriarchy bothers me. My mother-in-law doesn't like my sporty side, without alcohol, no excess food and a very strong libido, which she doesn't understand, she said to her daughter, you'll see, he'll calm down, fatten him up, make him drink and he'll let you sleep!
Sex seems to be a problem for my mother-in-law, it's dirty, it makes men unfaithful, her father was forced in his job as a Postman, to be 1 year in Paris far from his family and he cheated, during this period far from home, which makes my mother-in-law think that men are bad, pigs and only deserve to be put back in their place as Father, with under their eyes, their wives who flirt and flirt with hardened bachelors who must have all the privileges, including that of being the progenitor of Mom Yes and Dad maybe, as if she chose the ideal father and chose males incapable of being good Husbands and even less fathers, for their superior genetic qualities, to become in Secret those who humiliate their husbands in a style of saying, you see, you are not even capable of making me pregnant, luckily I took things in hand, the important thing is that you are a good faithful Husband, a good Handyman dad and obey your wife!
So when it came to having children, I announced at the end of year celebrations that we were going to have our children, one at first, then two at once, my mother-in-law jumped at the chance to put men down by saying that many try, without success and that sometimes women were the ones who allowed this miracle with her famous for the last child, you only wanted two and well you see, what a woman wants, I made you a baby behind your back and mom Yes but Dad maybe!
So, I did what I said, nine months later, our first child, my disgusted mother-in-law said to me, you were lucky, I said, I never stopped making love to your daughter to achieve this result, no more means of contraception and that's it!
Four years later we decided to start again to please our first child, I said to my mother-in-law, well now, two more children to have at once and then she told me, impossible, it's the mother who decides and there have never been twins in our family, then I told her, all it takes is a super motivated son-in-law with a super libido to overstimulate his partner, your daughter and two fertilizations at a very short interval and we will have fraternal twins, then she laughed in my face, saying that's it, we'll talk about it again, try to get the pregnant again, same thing 10 months later after the holidays, fraternal twins and my mother-in-law calls to find out if the child is okay in relation to the ultrasound return, sure of herself in relation to her daughter's big belly, she is carrying in front, it will be a boy and then I tell her on the phone, they are fine, who? The child and the mother? No the babies are fine! Give me my daughter!
And yes Mom, he said it, he did it!
And my mother-in-law screamed:
What did you do to my daughter!
She only wanted two children, and definitely not twins.
In addition, she gave birth to three daughters in total, so points to the mother-in-law who indicated that a good husband, an ideal father, often needed outside help to have beautiful children!
So this is why I am wondering if it is possible to successfully initiate a Switch in an adult game and do Chastity Cages permanently reduce the size in length and thickness of no. Male appendages or not?
If Emma can enlighten me, I am not really attracted by commitment, but if it allows my Couple to flourish in a Dominant dominated and Dominated Dominant Switch to break the codes of the institutional Patriarchy of the post-war period, I am in!
My wife finds me extremely sexual, she likes to miss things and doesn't consider Libertinage without feelings which would make her fall madly in love with her lover and Taurus boyfriend, she was lulled by Fairy tales and believes in Prince Charming so there is no question for her, never to be unfaithful or Libertine, never!
She thinks that since she is madly in love with Me and that I satisfy her Beyond her real needs, Libertinage if necessary, will only be possible through a semi-opening of my Couple on my side, she lacks confidence in herself, in her body, in her mind due to the abusive influence of her Mother that her father allowed to take the dreams of his Couple!
After fidelity suits me very well, but I have the impression that her desires to see me make love to another woman in front of her eyes, her fantasy of being engaged by a stranger during a fireworks display and that the latter shares her with another stranger or other men, presents in her a frustration which prevents her from being truly happy and fulfilled in her body as a woman and that she disconnects from her desires and sexual desires, the routine, the passing of time, everything which kills a couple who nevertheless love each other, as if by intensifying the deep and authentic intimate emotional connection became the antagonism of her personal development in her body as a woman free of her sexuality and I sent her there imprisoned caged by the desire for extreme control of her mother who transmits to her her fears, her anxieties and also her paranoia as well as her feelings of hatred of strangers and the unknown!
I would so much like that together we explore a blossoming Libertine Couple where Sex is no more than a means to love each other even more strongly in trust and complicity without romantic feelings for one or more third parties who are only means of giving Pep's to a very long relationship which needs renewal to nourish our Couple with intense emotions and without any feelings for its Libertines, just a complicit friendship?
To you Emma, and to YOU author of this subject to enlighten my magic lantern to make my Couple evolve for a profitable common fulfillment and all this in an unfailing, powerful, indestructible love with of course a mutual admiration and a compassion for the pleasure taken by each of the members of the Couple to nourish it with romantic and sulphurous passion 😉
Le déni et la rétention d'orgasme peuvent sembler une étape inconfortable dans votre relation, mais je vous assure que vous ne regretterez pas. Demandez à n'importe qui.🙂
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