We practice denial for me (male half, obvs).
S has spent the last two nights with her lover. I have not been locked - I very rarely am - instead, she trusts that I will not allow myself to orgasm when I think of the two of them together.
We find this works best for us, as I have to overcome my urge to masturbate to orgasm each time, rather than for it to be impossible.
For us, it means I prove myself to her over and over, and I get to absorb the fact that my erections are not important even while they are frequent and strong.
If I was locked, those things would not be possible for us. I wouldn't be able to demonstrate my commitment to this dynamic with positive choices each time.
Each to their own I know, but we find this form of denial the most rewarding.
We practice denial for me (male half, obvs).
S has spent the last two nights with her lover. I have not been locked - I very rarely am - instead, she trusts that I will not allow myself to orgasm when I think of the two of them together.
We find this works best for us, as I have to overcome my urge to masturbate to orgasm each time, rather than for it to be impossible.
For us, it means I prove myself to her over and over, and I get to absorb the fact that my erections are not important even while they are frequent and strong.
If I was locked, those things would not be possible for us. I wouldn't be able to demonstrate my commitment to this dynamic with positive choices each time.
Each to their own I know, but we find this form of denial the most rewarding.
Un système d'honneur, preuve d'un Amour inconditionnel.
Avez-vous parlez de l'après deux Mois de Lune de Miel, reprendrez vous une Sexualité spontanée ou vous profiterez tous les deux du plaisir de la pénétration?
Si elle souhaite offrir un privilège à son Petit Ami / Amant, elle peut Lui réserver son Cul et pourquoi pas vous convier tous les deux à un Trio, où elle serait le centre de toutes les attentions !
Son Partenaire de Vie et son Amant/Taureau pour s'occuper d'elle, ensembles, Unis vers un même but !
TOI pour les sentiments,
Lui pour les Émotions.
For me it's not necessarily about keeping him from getting erections. He can pull his penis out of his cage when he's not excited. He can also still have a really powerful orgasm by holding a massage wand to his cage. There are plenty of ways for him to get around it if he wanted to. My husband demonstrates his commitment every time he puts it back on after cleaning/shaving.
@avavava yes, perfect. It's whatever works in each dynamic for each person isn't it. Good for you and keep at it!
Yes, she gets different things from both of us. That's why it's working!
We have been together as a three once. She feels a bit awkward with us both involved at the same time. She would rather give herself to one or the other of us at a time. Also, it's not my favourite thing - I would rather watch!
I agree that when they are together, they should be able to express themselves without taking anything else into consideration.
S thinks that her spell of giving priority to him (for penetration) might end soon and we will go back to how we were before, with both of us enjoying equal privileges. But I am very happy to follow her lead - this whole thing is making her glow, I don't want to do anything to upset it!
C'est ce que vous vouliez tous les deux ?
I'm a bit of a control freak and a very conscientious, honorable person. Trusted denial would definitely work very well for me. But I prefer being subjected to surveillance that I can't predict. For example, camera surveillance, where I never know if anyone is actually seeing what I'm doing. I simply can't be sure; that's the appeal for me, and it helps prove that I've remained honorable.
Because nothing brings me down more than being occupied with something pointless that doesn't interest my wife at all but is done simply because I want it that way.
When my lady goes out in the evening without me, I'm usually left naked and given various sexual and non-sexual tasks. I'm monitored by several cameras. Or not? I don't know. I don't know if she's recording or not....
Of course, a chastity cage is also a welcome form of control for me.
We don't use surveillance for cuckolding because we're not a cuckold couple—but if we were, it would definitely be a tool of control.
Honor or not.
Yes, she gets different things from both of us. That's why it's working!
We have been together as a three once. She feels a bit awkward with us both involved at the same time. She would rather give herself to one or the other of us at a time. Also, it's not my favourite thing - I would rather watch!
I agree that when they are together, they should be able to express themselves without taking anything else into consideration.
S thinks that her spell of giving priority to him (for penetration) might end soon and we will go back to how we were before, with both of us enjoying equal privileges. But I am very happy to follow her lead - this whole thing is making her glow, I don't want to do anything to upset it!
Bonjour Dan et Sarah,
Donne des nouvelles de ta Hot Wife, avez vous repris vos ébats sexuels avec pénétrations de manière égale avec son petit ami ?
Comment est elle depuis ses trois mois de Noces, plus chaude, plus en demande d'attention et de moments intimes ?
Comment a évolué votre sexualité, est elle plus riche ?
Je suppose que votre connexion émotionnelle est plus profonde, intime, ouverte et Complice aussi, ta femme doit vraiment t'être très reconnaissante d'avoir inclus son petit ami dans votre vie, elle se sent vue, désirée, plus libre, épanouie sexuellement, sans pression, juste le désir et la passion avec ses deux Mâles !
Le fait de cumuler une vie amoureuse sérieuse et en sécurité émotionnelle avec ton soutien et sa vie légère avec son petit ami doit avoir donner à ton épouse une aisance et un côté sexy avec une confiance rayonnante, je me trompes ?
@gupydoncabryel you are not wrong!
Things are great. Sarah is confident, happy, shining! We have delayed me having equal rights again, but temporarily.
I am very much enjoying my denial at the moment, and Sarah is enjoying feeling naughty, and free.
I think in September, after another adventure (next week, we are meeting a much larger guy for her to try) I will be allowed back inside. But it is up to her!
@gupydoncabryel you are not wrong!
Things are great. Sarah is confident, happy, shining! We have delayed me having equal rights again, but temporarily.
I am very much enjoying my denial at the moment, and Sarah is enjoying feeling naughty, and free.
I think in September, after another adventure (next week, we are meeting a much larger guy for her to try) I will be allowed back inside. But it is up to her!
Tu pourras rentrer, juste après qu'il l'ait prise ?
Il va peut-être l'enculer, si elle Lui offre son petit Cul en signe de Soumission, comme un privilège, te laissera t'elle la prendre par son Cul aussi ?
After a few weeks of withdrawing from her boyfriend to be only with me (which was lovely)... S returned to him, and we are now at a point where she is able to say quite definitely that her heart is mine, but her body is his.
Until S decides otherwise, her sex life is between her and him, and anyone else they decide to bring into the equation. That may or may not be me.
After a few weeks of withdrawing from her boyfriend to be only with me (which was lovely)... S returned to him, and we are now at a point where she is able to say quite definitely that her heart is mine, but her body is his.
Until S decides otherwise, her sex life is between her and him, and anyone else they decide to bring into the equation. That may or may not be me.
Comment c'est t'elle montrée agréable avec TOI, si son corps est à Lui et son cœur à TOI ?
Un homme a besoin d'intimité sexuelle et d'être touché pour maintenir une connexion émotionnelle profonde intense et éviter le détachement émotionnelle menant à l'indifférence et à une rupture !
En accordant après une petite pause d'après Lune de Miel, l'exclusivité à son Amant, comment allez-vous réussir à maintenir avec intention vôtre dévouement à tous les deux pour maintenir le cœur ?
Sarah a t'elle conscience de très clairement te rejeter pour un amour Platonique ou tu restes un meilleur ami et non plus un partenaire de vie ?
Et toi comment fait tu pour conserver une vie sexuelle active ?
Son petit ami a t'il conscience que en privilégiant une fidélité sexuelle exclusive à sa propre personne, les sentiments amoureux vont s'approfondir et conduire Sarah sur le moyen et long terme à un plan B avec Lui et TOI en Satellite utile à son bien être et dévoués dans ton déni et ton abstinence, cela ne risques t'il pas de mener à une relation de Monogamie avec l'amant et une cohabitation avec un Mari, qui glissera vers une soumission sexuelle bi passive ?
Deux vies sexuelles séparés, cloisonnés sans aucun retour en arrière possible, une fois la boîte de Pandore ouverte !
Les hommes, ont besoin d'intimité sexuelle pour se lier d'un point de vue émotionnelle, ils ont besoin d'être touché dans leurs intimité, de garder une vie sexuelle et passionnée avec l'être aimé, sans cela, il y aura sission et ta sexualité, ton corps réclamera son due, si ta force mentale te maintien fidèle à ton épouse, ton corps trouvera le moyen de lui rester exclusif en tant que femme et tu évoluera en l'identifiant à Sarah et la Bi Sexualité passive forcée par Sarah inconsciemment, se mettra en place naturellement.