Hi all, male submissive here.Â
Me and my wife have dabbled into orgasm control and denial. It makes me feel so purposeful when she has control. It has also recently gone up a notch which is extremely exciting. I love it and she absolutely loves having the reins in the relationship. AnywayÂ
My area I need to improve is about day 3 in the words of my beautiful wife I become annoying. She is great at reading me and understands even when I look at her in a certain way what I am asking for. She openly says how annoying I am and to go away. Anyway wondering if anyone had some pointers 😊 thankyouÂ
There needs to be an understanding as to what each of you wants from the marriage. If what you want from her is for her to be a fetish peddler by dominating you, you will continue to be annoying to her, and eventually, it will be the demise of WLM status and possibly even your marriage. If you are in it because you can and will actually and genuinely get your pleasure, as your primary source, from making sure that she lives a life of pleasure and bliss, then you have a chance. It takes time for each of you to find your footing in that regard, and as long as you continue to make progress in that, you'll find your way.
Here's another bit of advice. DON'T be annoying. Â
Hi there, thankyou for the reply.Â
Yes you're correct in saying that we both need to find our footing.Â
You're correct as well in that I need to control my desires (sexually) more and not be annoying.Â
I see you also have a blog I'll look into that today and see if it can help me along with this journey. First point of call though is to discuss more with my wife. Thanks for the help any further information is appreciatedÂ
Thanks for the reply @AmberM3396. I'd love to see you over at my blog. I'd suggest you start from the beginning (earliest first) and make your way to the current. If you see something you like (or even don't like), please leave a comment to let me know you were there. I'm around anytime you'd like to chat.
