Hello all. I’m a wannabe cuck and for awhile been very into this idea but afraid to bring up to my wife bc she’s somewhat traditional. When I found this blog and read the intro I just started seeing my wife as potentially a good candidate. She loathes when I masturbate and keeps tabs on if I’m lasting too long or not cumming with enough volume and gives me grief for masturbating. So in a way she’s already sort of controlling my orgasms, I’m just bad at complying.
The issue is she’s not very open minded about non traditional sexual topics. How do I lead her to discover how great this could be for her without exposing it as my idea?
Small steps and allow time, time. You cannot go from 100 to 1,000 so talk to your wife and allow her time to explore without pressure.Allow her to learn and see what she likes. You will be amazed when there is no expectations. My wife was very vanilla as well in our marriage until. It took honest communication from me and accepting my wife exploring in her own time. For me it took 12+ months and we started with chastity
How did you eventually bring up chastity to her?
Hello all. I’m a wannabe cuck and for awhile been very into this idea but afraid to bring up to my wife bc she’s somewhat traditional. When I found this blog and read the intro I just started seeing my wife as potentially a good candidate. She loathes when I masturbate and keeps tabs on if I’m lasting too long or not cumming with enough volume and gives me grief for masturbating. So in a way she’s already sort of controlling my orgasms, I’m just bad at complying.
The issue is she’s not very open minded about non traditional sexual topics. How do I lead her to discover how great this could be for her without exposing it as my idea?
Fortunately for you, your wife already frowns on your masturbation habit, so you might say something like: "I know you disapprove of my masturbating, so maybe you could help me with it. I'd like to buy a locking chastity cage, and let you keep the key" You may have to bring this up multiple times, but if she agrees, then after she's gotten used to being your keyholder, there is a good chance she'll be receptive to cuckolding you. Baby steps can often be the best tactic.
