Hello everyone. My name is Anita. I’m 48 years old and a mom to four boys. My husband and I have been incorporating chastity into our relationship since 2012, back when I bought him his first cage. We'd been married for over ten years at that point, and life was busy, as it tends to be..full of parenting, work, and daily routines. But beneath it all, we both felt the need for something more like a new kind of spark.
I first stumbled upon the concept of chastity during a late-night scroll on the computer. At first, I wasn’t sure what to make of it. But the more I read, the more it intrigued me, particularly the emotional side of chastity like the trust and intimacy. I didn’t bring it up right away of course. I spent months quietly reading, learning, and thinking it over. Eventually, I brought it up with him one night after the kids had gone to bed. I told him it was something I’d love to try, and surprisingly, my husband was open to it. He too was curious and just a little nervous. A week later, the cock cage we ordered arrived and we took the leap.
Chastity has been a meaningful part of our relationship ever since. We’re not 24/7, and we don’t follow any rigid rules. it’s more about staying connected and being playful. It’s been a mostly private part of our lives, but I’m finally ready to share and connect with others who understand what this kind of journey can mean.
Welcome. It’s nice to have a strong female sharing her experience and what has worked for her and her husband. This is a great website share your joy.
Hi,
I am also new here. I have had some little experience in the past with being cucked. Chastity cages, as part of the community was something new to me about 18 months ago. I didn’t really get it. As a guy, a little concerned too but mainly didn’t get it. Met a few guys online into it and I just thought ok. Stumbled on some home videos and started to understand it. I am single at the moment. If I had a partner I think I would bring up the topic. Maybe I would be nervous about what she would think. I guess I am replying because to see a woman suggesting a chastity cage would give me more confidence. I would be interested to hear hour it is going for both of you and what your plans are around it or actually how you use it. Thanks for your post.
Thank you so much! I'm excited to explore this site. Thank you so much for the warm welcome.
It’s great that you’re open to the idea. That's what happened to me so after all the research, I asked my husband and I was happy he was curious too. For us, it’s really become a way to deepen our connection. Not about control or kink alone, but about communication, intimacy, and fun. We don’t have any rigid rules, but we do use it regularly in a way that keeps things fresh and meaningful between us. I hope you find the right partner in time who’s just as curious and open as you are.
Hello! I'm happy to see another female here. : )