Introduction

Hi everyone, we started out as a couple slowly exploring Chastity and reading. After many failed attempts at getting the right cage we are onto a winner.

Our next step was to read and talk. We eventually agreed to a contract and began soft exploration.

So far we have jointly landed on:

My wife relishes being a Femdom

SPH

Chastity 

Orgasm denial

Planning our first munch

My wife has opened up about her kinks

My wife has been honest. Penetrative sex with me is all about me. She does not get a lot of feeling physically. 

My wife wants to explore meeting other men who are well hung. We have been together since 17 and she feels this need has been suppressed.

We talk a lot more about kinks, needs and wants. One big benefit from Femdom is our communication. I didn't expect us to share so openly and honestly. I was also not fully prepared for what my wife told me, but I have embraced the fact that this is all small steps. Not zero to 100. 

Finally, when I do get a release it is magical. My wife's orgasms have improved as well as she can now fully explore her kinks honestly and without fear of judgement