Long-Time Lurker

Hi everyone,

I'm a long time lurker of Emma's blog. My wife and I have been married for 18 years. Our relationship has always been somewhat FLR, but over the last few years we have begun to officially acknowledge it. My wife doesn't like labels, but she does like to be in charge, both in and out of the bedroom. Out of the bedroom has never been an issue but it has taken some time and work by both of us for her to embrace her authority in the bedroom. She thinks she's not into kink, but she's slowly getting more comfortable with it. It's a long slow process for me to present what I would like in tiny bits that won't turn her off or overwhelm her, let her think about it for as long as she wants, and decided if/how she wants to grant my request on her terms. It takes a lot of patience but it's working. I hope someday she will tie me down and peg me, but we're not quite there yet. A boy can dream though!