Question for the men about cuckolding.

For me, the idea represents a perverse and masochistic thrill: being displaced by a better and more able performer. My wife and I are strictly monogamous and the notion of another man "taking what is mine" in front me, particularly if I am observing and caged, elicits a strong chemical reaction whenever I picture it. It's definitely not something I wish to make a reality, but I think playing with the fantasy and using sex toys to simulate it can be fun. We've been trying this for a few months, and it has helped enliven our sex life. I'd add that I didn't have such ideas or fantasies only a few years ago, and at one point I didn't understand why anyone would. But I suppose if you stay in a long-term relationship for long enough, and maybe if you're bored enough like we were/are, the idea can be something novel and erotically triggering. But actually acting on this fantasy I don't think would be healthy for our relationship, and neither of us has an interest in doing so. 

Being involved, either directly or by her telling me about it during or afterwards..and the other thing I find completely erotic is our sex together afterwards….there’s nothing else like it

Using toys as a substitute for the fantasy has soo many applications to make it fun for both. She could give the toy a very manly name, she could play the I need to feel a real man card and make her husband use it on her, she could make him watch from a chair & really make a point of the pleasure she's getting,  she could make him listen outside the bedroom door, she could do a long tease & denial, and then goto the toy to drive home the fantasy, she could get all dolled up for a date, wear sexy lingerie she normally wouldn't wear for her husband, and all thru the date with her husband do a lot of teasing things, to drive him crazy, and when they get home have the husband undress her, & then send him to the spare bedroom for the night & goto town very loudly.  If SPH I'd also part of their scene she can also include that.

Posted by: @evolvingyourman_ivcr4j

What do you seek from your cuckold fantasy? What sorts of things would you find most arousing in a cuckold experience?

The naughtiness of it; my wife being naughty and more sexually dominant. 
My wife wants to let herself go wild but she holds back. I desire for her to experience really great sex without worrying about getting pregnant. To watch my wife be very erotic would be very exciting.

Posted by: @evolvingyourman_ivcr4j

What do you seek from your cuckold fantasy? What sorts of things would you find most arousing in a cuckold experience?

The joy on my wife's face first and foremost!