Hi.  Married male here that has been into chastity for a while(since I saw it in porn).  I bought a cage without my wife knowing.  First time I put it on, I was hooked.  Then I just needed to find a way to tell my wife.  We were looking at toys on Amazon, and we looked at chastity cages. I expressed an interest in it and we bought a cage.  She was freaked out at first.   We did more research and reading on it and a lot of open communication about it.   That helped a lot.  We both read a book called Locked in Love.  It helped a lot.  So far the longest I have been locked is 33 days.  We are continuing to see where this goes.  

Thanks.