What has brought me here

This post is simply by way of introduction.

I am a mature male emerging from the second of two failed conventional marriages.

I have felt for a long. long time a deep need to be the one who is 'taken' in a relationship as opposed to the one in control. The idea of simply being 'taken' or pegged at will by my partner simply feels right to me. I admire naturally dominant, assertive women and realise that the kind of relationships discussed is the direction I should now take for the future.

So, that is why I am here and look forward to learning more