All of Karin’s female friends know about the nature of our relationship.
Some of my friends know too. Many of them don’t really “get” the nature of the relationship Karin and I share, how deeply in love I am with Her, or why I would never leave Her, despite what they see as Her “cheating” on me. I sometimes get questions like these from my friends.
“Karin flirts with other guys right in front of you?” Yes, a lot. She knows it turns me on. She is an attractive and desirable Woman and knows how to draw the attention of men to Her.
“The two of you were out together but she left you to be with some other guy?” Yes, we were having drinks and were planning on dinner and dancing afterwards. She started flirting with a guy and he started flirting back. I recognized there was really good chemistry there and suggested to Her to “go for it.” She thanked me with a wink and a smile and I moved to another spot at the bar so I could watch. They talked for a bit, they each had another drink, made out for a while, and eventually left together. When Karin got home later that night, She told me all about their encounter and we had amazing sex afterwards.
“She doesn’t let you cum inside of her when you have sex?” It depends on Her mood. Sometimes She does let me cum inside Her, sometimes She wants it in Her mouth, on Her body or somewhere else. Either way I get to eat it afterwards. Sometimes She doesn’t let me cum at all.
“How can you enjoy it when she fucks you in your ass? Are you secretly bi or gay?” I consider myself straight, and feel more connected to a Woman while being pegged than any other type of intimacy. But all I can suggest is experimentation with your wife or girlfriend. You might like anal stimulation, you might not. She might not be into it, and you can’t force Her. Enjoying having a Woman stimulate or penetrate your ass does not make you gay. Kinky and submissive, perhaps, but not gay. If you want to have the same experience with a man, however, you might be bi or gay. If that’s you, that’s you, just be yourself.
“She cheated on you on your honeymoon?” It’s not cheating. Our relationship had never been monogamous. When I proposed to Her, She accepted, but told me She would not compromise Her sexual freedom just to make our relationship monogamous specifically for marriage. I absolutely love that.
“She not only cheats on you, but sends you pictures of her doing the deed?” We agreed on our relationship being non-monogamous, so it’s not cheating. She knows I am deeply aroused by the mental images of the pleasure She is having. We are both voyeuristic and have pictures and videos of each other with other partners that we like to watch together.
“The two of you went out swinging with another couple, but she didn’t let you have sex and made you watch her?” Yes, and it was amazing to see Her having fun with both a man and a Woman at the same time. I felt compersion for Her, not jealousy.
“So she gets to fuck whoever she wants but only lets you have sex with old fat broads? (his words, not mine)” Karin has total sexual freedom but She limits the openness of my half of the relationship. She shares me with Her friends on occasion. Her best friend is an older BBW, and Karin knows I am attracted to both older Women and to BBWs. She does have some friends are closer to my age, and all different body types.
“She actually had a gangbang for her birthday?” Yes, She did. Her best friend put a ton of effort into making all the necessary arrangements to make it a birthday surprise for Karin, then decided to take part as well. Both Karin and Her friend enjoyed it tremendously. When Karin and Her friend came home afterward, I enjoyed the massively elevated sexual energy they brought back with them.
“Why in hell did you marry her anyway? She’s more than twice your age?” I am, and have always been attracted to older Women. I love an intelligent, confident, passionate, strong, sexually liberated Woman who takes charge of everything in Her life and Karin fits that profile perfectly. I first recognized Karin was a special Woman when I first got to know Her as a teenager. When She took my virginity on my 18th birthday (She was 53) I knew I was completely in love with Her. We were together for seven years before we were married and have been very happily married for seven more.
I wish I could better explain how compersion works to my friends, how and why seeing Karin happy gives me more pleasure than my “possession” of Her ever could. A man should never think of his Wife as his property, it’s just the wrong way of thinking. She is not your possession, She is your Life Partner, with wants, needs, desires and fantasies of Her own. If you work to help Her to fulfill those, you will both be happier for it.
