So my wife has a flirting text buddy from the UK
About 3 weeks ago she got a text saying they had to keep things vanilla from now on he got a girlfriend........ Not two weeks later he's back full on full out texting....
Me: won't his new GF get pissed
Wife: she broke it off sead he was to nice
To me the words ( Your to nice ) means I don't want a relationship I want drama I don't want a relationship I want chaos
I think my guy dodged a bullet
But what do you all think ?
Yep @ljg I agree with you. Typically when women say that a guy is too nice they usually crave chaos. Chaos makes them feel something, even if its toxic. Usually they had a dramatic household growing up and they equate drama with connection and a dramatic household feels comfortable.
@evolvingyourman-2 make them feel something even if it's toxic
Wow what a thought some people so numb inside never thought of that
But yes indeed I think your right