My girlfriend has a guy friend. She admitted that she goes in the jacuzzi with him and he is naked (she claims that she keeps he bikini on). She also admitted that he gave her a nude massage. She goes over there frequently still. What should I do?
Was there any previous conversation or understanding? Was there full trust and communication?Â
Just ask her about it... don't be confrontational, just have a conversation.
She might like to provoke a reaction from you, or even to have something happen with him. Or just want a massage and a jacuzzi (though that seems less likely..)
If she wants something to happen with him, you have to communicate how it would make you feel - i.e. if it would be hurtful to you, or make you excited or nervous, or...whatever.Â
You can't stop her, she has her own mind. But if you communicate your feelings well, she will have full knowledge. You might find that alone is enough to influence her focus if she is tempted....??Â