- Chris1337 on Small Penis, Short Stamina, Big Love: My Wife Deserves Better Sex Than I Can Give Her: “Little Question Emma, from your Post in the last months I read that most of the time when you talk…” Oct 3, 02:34
- on Small Penis, Short Stamina, Big Love: My Wife Deserves Better Sex Than I Can Give Her: “Dear Emma, I love your posts as they always let me reflect my marriage with my beloved wife and make…” Oct 2, 15:40
- on Punishment & Correction: “IMHO – Every FLR should include spanking as a corrective tool. If she has a physically superior bull, then the…” Oct 2, 11:32
- on Why Are So Many Single Men Getting Into Chastity? Feminism and the Future of Male Sexuality: “For single men who explore chastity, is the motivation more about internal discipline or external validation? Generally, it’s more about…” Oct 2, 11:25
- on Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative?: “Is Denying Your Husband’s Orgasm Manipulative? Yes – and there is nothing wrong with that at all. In a FEMALE…” Oct 2, 11:20
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “I totally agree with Open_to. I don’t have a lack of endowment but a boyfriend/bull has something that I can’t…” Oct 1, 20:08
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “Thanks for sending, this is quite recent. I wish I had access to the full text. If anyone does, I’d…” Oct 1, 15:54
- on Evolutionary Roots of Cuckolding: Arousing our Primal Lizard Brain: “Et quand le mâle Alpha choisi une femelle plus jeune comme compagne, l’ancienne femelle Alpha se soumet à la nouvelle…” Oct 1, 13:40
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “If i may i found these study here. Yes it is not exactly a long time study of chastiy cages…” Oct 1, 12:05
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “That itself was the question what would it be ????? Would she be locked and teased or all the sex…” Oct 1, 11:20
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “Make sure you select the right sized cage https://evolvingyourman.com/male-chastity-selecting-the-correct-size-for-your-cock-cage/ Some thoughts on chastity and ED https://evolvingyourman.com/does-chastity-cause-erectile-dysfunction/ An FAQ which includes…” Oct 1, 10:54
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “Thank you Asha! It really is interesting how acceptance is a phase of chastity, it is deeper than that too.…” Oct 1, 10:49
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “Define opposite, where he has sex every day or where the woman is locked?” Oct 1, 10:48
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “We are doing about the same thing as years past and curious to see how things go, I’ll be keeping…” Oct 1, 10:47
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “We had a similar situation my wife got sick for about 3 years couldn’t do anything comfortable with sex …….…” Oct 1, 10:08
- on The Compassionate Cuckold: Building A Loving Model for Female Led Intimacy: “Dear Emma, I’ve got one point that I don’t get along with: you several times pointed out that no single…” Oct 1, 03:33
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “Thank you for registering and for following the blog for so long. Of course there are concerns with a marriage…” Sep 30, 13:26
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “I live my life in a way where I never expect any person/place/ or thing to ever feel obligated to…” Sep 30, 09:18
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “Hi. I’ve been lurking this blog for a while now, and just registered specifically to respond to this post. I must say, the idea of a pussy-free marriage based on the wife no longer desiring intercourse with her husband *at all* seems sad to me. Particularly if she does desire intercourse but never with *him* again, I believe ‘pussy-free’ is likely to be far more of a problem than a solution to anything. However, that is not really what I came here to speak to. No, I’m here about the endo. My wife had endo for much of her adult life, until a hysterectomy eventually dealt with that. This began decades ago, when endo was not widely known, and it was a painstaking drawn-out process even to get a diagnosis. Also, she had related other conditions that meant periodic abdominal surgeries, which of course caused their own knock-on effects. As you can imagine, sex was problematic. There were spells when it was possible, even joyful, and periods, sometimes long ones, when it was out of the question. During the good times, she appreciated my stamina (her first husband had had a PE issue which had frustrated her). During the so-so times, she could make it to orgasm but I would generally have to stop without getting my turn. I went down on her a lot, and that was sometimes the only option, although during the roughest spells she didn’t really want anything going on ‘down there.’ Not even that. None of that was any kind of FLR kink. Lots of oral service, me withdrawing without orgasm: it wasn’t kink, it wasn’t some FLR power dynamic, it was just navigating the sexual aspects of a difficult and painful chronic illness together. Do we have an FLR at all? I’m still not sure. Certainly nothing declared, and nothing with kink. Yet sort of. She is the more assertive. Demanding, even. I am the breadwinner and also do much of the domestic service: a situation I am content with, and which my work has allowed much of the time. What is that, Level 1? Level 0? I came curious to find out and I still don’t know. But based on my experience, I think you definitely *could* cope…” Sep 30, 07:57
- on Female Confidence: 15 Ways Male Chastity Can Boost Relationship Power: “How does the idea of being in control of your partner’s pleasure make you feel? Does it excite, intimidate, or…” Sep 29, 19:55
- on 5 Powerful Reasons to Embrace Male Chastity for a Stronger, More Passionate Relationship: “How do you think a man’s perspective on intimacy changes when he’s not able to rely on instant gratification? He…” Sep 29, 19:46
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “Hello Emma, safety question about long term chastity. The more i read about the more concerns come to my mind.…” Sep 29, 15:05
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “I completely agree that nobody has a right to decide over another person’s body, unless somebody handed this right to…” Sep 29, 11:31
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “A refreshing break from the cuckolding binge. Thank You. Below is my favorite post on the subject: My husband found…” Sep 29, 08:39
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “I have a question suprise 😂….. Two ladies I know want to know if there is a counter to locktober…” Sep 29, 08:35
- on Does Penis Size Matter to Women: A Biological Perspective: “It matters, sexually it really does however, it’s not just physical, it is psychological too. When you unwrap/reveal that penis…” Sep 29, 05:04
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: “Thanks for explaining and no problem at all, your website is fascinating and I love reading it, especially Evolving Emma’s…” Sep 29, 04:20
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “‘A clear boundary can create room for a much better relationship than a perpetual “maybe.”’ I think for many couples,…” Sep 29, 03:17
- on No Intercourse, More Intimacy? The Surprising Appeal of Pussy Free Marriage: “And women wonder why they keep getting cheated on. When sex is a need, which it is for the vast…” Sep 28, 20:08
- on Chaster: A Locktober Challenge for Curious Couples: “Emma – are y’all doing anything different this locktober? I know you’d mentioned that Kev doesn’t do well without release…” Sep 28, 17:17
- on Understanding Men’s Cuckold Fantasy and Using it to Our Advantage: “That’s lovely, thank you so much.” Sep 28, 12:04
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “This is so well stated, I’d love to hear more about your story if you are interested in sharing. If…” Sep 28, 09:27
- on Understanding Men’s Cuckold Fantasy and Using it to Our Advantage: “I agree 100%. This seems to be directed to a minority of men. Most don’t want their wives being unfaithful.” Sep 28, 06:48
- on Does Chastity Cause Erectile Dysfunction?: “Il me semble avoir vu un tableau avec différentes tailles en fonction du temps, l’idée est de diminuer au fil…” Sep 28, 05:29
- on Arousal Conditioning and Sexual Fluidity: Breaking Down Barriers with Kev and Erik: “Donc Emma, selon TOI, ma femme qui rêve de me voir faire l’amour à une autre, pourrait éventuellement suivant le…” Sep 28, 05:14
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: ““I have honestly never met a woman who was truly interested in being dominant or in charge, generally speaking. At…” Sep 27, 18:46
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “This is so true… My husband is my rock and my safe place but there’s this need for something different.…” Sep 27, 08:40
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “Certains couples ont un goût pour le BDSM, le contraste, cette sensation de ne pas subir pour la femme, une…” Sep 26, 14:16
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Society desires women. It doesn’t desire men. Men are viewed more like an appliance. They have a utilitarian purpose, but…” Sep 26, 05:00
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: “I have honestly never met a woman who was truly interested in being dominant or in charge generally speaking. At…” Sep 26, 04:34
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “I’m not sure why a man would want to do this, but if it makes you happy, then do it.” Sep 25, 15:22
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: “Yes that’s right. I thought about adding a blurb about “orginally published on DATE and revised blah blah blah” but…” Sep 25, 13:56
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: “Yes if I make any edits or rewrite sections to improve clarity or add any new thoughts I republish them…” Sep 25, 13:54
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: “If I understand correctly, Emma will sometimes re publishes older articles. It would be helpful for the reader for Emma…” Sep 25, 09:47
- on Himless and Happy: How My Finger-Led Relationship Left My Husband Pussy Free: “my gf was depressed with our 3rd stillborn, I was ignorant , begging, bartering for sex. I chose chastity to…” Sep 24, 19:35
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “I have partners I’d never want my friends and family to know about, I would never have my husband treat…” Sep 24, 19:20
- on There is Nothing Wrong With Craving More Than My Husband Has to Offer: “Clear Boundaries: Define exactly what you’re looking for and agree on guidelines that honor both partners. In a FEMALE led…” Sep 24, 07:37
- on The Evolution of Intimacy: The Slippery Slope of Submission: “Dear Emma, It is confusing that this article says it is published on 23 Sept 2026, but all the comments…” Sep 24, 03:25
- on The Compassionate Cuckold: Building A Loving Model for Female Led Intimacy: “I don’t have a physical connection with any fella. Unlike some guys here, I’m attracted to women. P.S. No separation…” Sep 23, 22:47
- on The Compassionate Cuckold: Building A Loving Model for Female Led Intimacy: “I think you stated that well, cuckolding goes against a whole life’s experience as to what is normal expected and…” Sep 23, 14:02
- on The Compassionate Cuckold: Building A Loving Model for Female Led Intimacy: “If your wife is really enjoying the physical connection that she has with this fella and you don’t feel threatened…” Sep 23, 14:00
- on The Compassionate Cuckold: Building A Loving Model for Female Led Intimacy: “I’m not sure if you are being sarcastic but permission and consent are always needed and compersion is always wanted,…” Sep 23, 13:59
- on The Compassionate Cuckold: Building A Loving Model for Female Led Intimacy: “This is a great point!” Sep 23, 13:57
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Hmmm 🤔 that answers a lot of questions……. And brings up more but hey that’s learning for you 😀” Sep 23, 09:50
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “No grammur nazis around hear more wurried about wut u says than how u says it.” Sep 23, 08:43
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “10-4 I usually try to give him some sort of emotion that doesn’t show happiness and enthusiasm but an understanding…” Sep 23, 08:42
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Yes sometimes we do use Kelsie for Kev but not always. I kind of want him to embrace the femininity…” Sep 23, 08:40
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Hmmm 🤔 ….. I’m not shere why but I have a question….. Is it a form of exploration or a…” Sep 23, 07:33
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Sorry about the grammar.” Sep 22, 21:05
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Hey Emma, I’m need to raise the imagery you use for your blog again. I’m assuming the the images that’s…” Sep 22, 21:04
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Emma – does Kev have feminine name during this time? Do y’all integrate gender role play within the cuckolding dynamics…” Sep 22, 16:30
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “It really might be. I’d wager that people focus more on how their energies align with their idea of what…” Sep 22, 16:10
- on Leaning Into Gender Role Play and Exploring The Inner Feminine: “Mh even though I am glad Kev gets more in touch with himself, I still find it strange that he…” Sep 22, 14:25
- on A Cuckold Fantasy Is a Secret Hack To Help Your Emotionally Closed Husband Open Up: “Even though emotions are high, the point isnt to create an emotional roller coaster. It is about noticing how your…” Sep 22, 11:14
- on A Cuckold Fantasy Is a Secret Hack To Help Your Emotionally Closed Husband Open Up: “I love this podcast, thank you for sharing” Sep 22, 11:11
- on A Cuckold Fantasy Is a Secret Hack To Help Your Emotionally Closed Husband Open Up: “At surface level it might look like that but its more about recognizing emotional shutdown as a survival response and…” Sep 22, 11:11
- on The Orgasm Economy: Why His Release Is the Most Powerful Currency in Your Sexual Dynamic: “Very true, it’s all so fascinating – isnt it?” Sep 22, 11:00
- on The Orgasm Economy: Why His Release Is the Most Powerful Currency in Your Sexual Dynamic: “Thanks!!!!” Sep 22, 10:59
- on The Orgasm Economy: Why His Release Is the Most Powerful Currency in Your Sexual Dynamic: “Great video, thanks for sharing David” Sep 22, 10:58
- on The Orgasm Economy: Why His Release Is the Most Powerful Currency in Your Sexual Dynamic: “I can totally see how it might sound like Kev lives by a very strict little sex schedule and I’m…” Sep 22, 10:58
- on A Cuckold Fantasy Is a Secret Hack To Help Your Emotionally Closed Husband Open Up: “Revisiting this topic, I think you are very much an exception to the rule and are one of the few…” Sep 22, 10:38
- on The Dinner Guest: Part 3: “Your ability to tell a story gets better and better. I liked the sleeping on the floor twist.” Sep 22, 10:29
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “The polarity is real and the lack of awareness of its existence is the cause of many ruptures in relationships.…” Sep 22, 10:25
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “I know there has to be more to this if I as a husband was only emotional support…. Put in…” Sep 22, 06:41
- on Cuckold Chemistry: Why Your Husband Can’t Be Your Best Lover (And Why That’s Actually Perfect): “It’s funny that word,choose. You(Emma) Choose..when you have a choice to make.. You choose Erik (sexually at least) The cuckold…” Sep 21, 22:00
- on Watch Me, Love Me, Deny Me: A Guide to Hotwife and Cuckold Play: “I would like to introduce this to my wife if it’s possible. I know she wants bigger cock than mine.…” Sep 18, 22:14
- on Little Things and Big Packages: A SPH Story: “This would be the absolute best scenario for what I would want.” Sep 18, 19:31
- on Feeling Feminine, Feeling Full: The Psychology of Size Desire: “As a fellow man with a tiny cock (2.6 inches) that likes SPH. I appreciate this blog post because it…” Sep 18, 19:11
- on Stability Means Sexually Boring: The Sexy Science of Why Danger Wins Every Time: “Two thoughts to this post: -) if Emma is right and almost all women after some years in a committed…” Sep 18, 16:12
- on The Orgasm Economy: Why His Release Is the Most Powerful Currency in Your Sexual Dynamic: “Chastity and delayed orgasm create hunger. They sharpen attention. They create anticipation. They can make him more focused, more eager…” Sep 16, 03:14
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I wonder how many women who have an interest in alternative relationship dynamics like this actually enjoy the real life…” Sep 15, 08:26
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I don’t think any of us are asking that at all. Ai least for me, I see dynamics like that…” Sep 14, 18:37
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “Isn’t emmas point that its not a two way street and their needs are different? She is meeting him with…” Sep 14, 09:54
- on Husband in Lace: Pegging’s Magic Portal to Caretaking Ecstasy: “this is beautiful. what do you like about pegging type sex from her? what does she like” Sep 14, 09:52
- on Husband in Lace: Pegging’s Magic Portal to Caretaking Ecstasy: “Emma and Kev are so hot in this picture. I love these pics i know they are ai but is…” Sep 14, 09:51
- on Sex Isn’t Pie: Scarcity vs Abundance Mindset in Polyamory: ““Here’s the truth: I am not a pie. Not pumpkin pie. Not apple pie. Not even rhubarb pie. What is…” Sep 14, 02:59
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I would guess most cuckolded husbands want all those things for their wives. Is it unreasonable then to assume that…” Sep 13, 15:38
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “Dear Emma, I completely agree that in a healthy partnership, both parties’ needs must be met for the partnership to…” Sep 13, 11:37
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I have never said a husband’s needs are not important but I have said that they can look different. A…” Sep 13, 09:48
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I am not saying the husband is unimportant or should only receive “maintenance” sex. For many men, regular intimacy with…” Sep 13, 09:40
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “You’ve made it clear on many posts that hubby’s needs aren’t really important. My point is that you are the…” Sep 13, 00:31
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “So you kinda make my point. You need/require certain things to feel validated, important,loved,appreciated etc..but you don’t feel that reciprocation…” Sep 13, 00:20
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I agree that a husband in this dynamic can be both her facilitator and an object of her desire. A…” Sep 12, 16:22
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I would add that most men also need to feel desired by their wife, To me, that is synonymous with…” Sep 12, 16:09
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “I don’t see it as maintenance energy vs passionate energy. For some women (like myself) feeling sexually free, desired, safe,…” Sep 12, 15:07
- on Feminine Release: Wanting More Does Not Make You a Bad Wife: “You’ve always said that being a cuckold isn’t taking a back seat!! However,you never give the high,passionate, desirable energy to…” Sep 12, 13:28
- on The Watchtower: Chapter 10: “Still looking for Chapter 11. RGJohn, please come through!” Sep 11, 22:08
- on The Watchtower: Chapter 9: “This story was ready to take off on a new and exciting angle when the Evolving Your Man website crashed…” Sep 11, 22:06
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