Lady keyholders: Please remember you have the option to listen to him beg for release from his chastity cage or not. Some keyholders enjoy this, but for those who don't, setting clear rules along with corrective action to discourage disobedience is a wise idea. He may indeed be throbbing with sexual frustration, but enforced male chastity is the best way to modify his behavior to your wishes, and to insure his obedience. You can be direct and firm without being abrasive or loud. Example below. Â
My husband started to beg me to stroke him in the shower yesterday while his cage was off for cleaning. Not to an orgasm, but just to have a little bit of pleasure. It was so cute. I know I could've shut it down right away, but I REALLY enjoyed how desperate he was. He's never gotten to the point of begging before.