OK, I love your comment. First, the more this goes on, the less I fantasize about other women. Fantasies that I've had regularly (you know, 2x-875x ...

The cage doesn't prevent me from playing with myself; it's my agreement to not play with myself that prevents me from playing with myself. What the ...

@j-m Ask your wife for her opinion. Nothing else really matters. Pre-cage, I masturbated about 3x a day, so once a week doesn't sound that ridiculou...

Yeah, this is so spot on: When she "gets it", for any definition of that phrase, the rush I get in return is ridiculous.

Well, a woman who wants more sex is a good problem to have! If she likes the idea of you locked, and she knows she can have you whenever she wants, ...

Does she want more sex? Is this something she's asked for? Trust me, I'm pro-cage ? ... it has done and it is doing wonders in my marriage -- which ...

"solution" ? What does your wife think about that?

This site is fundamentally kinky, and focused on a fundamentally kinky topic, and part of kink is accepting other people's kinks, and that their kinks...

I'm not entirely sure that you won't eventually read that line that you wrote and realize the irony.

I think you two have often been "the life of the party" here. I don't understand everything you two write. The parts that I do understand, I don't a...

I don't think you've upset anyone. Sure, your kinks are different than everyone else's. That's why they're called kinks, and not (for example) "no...

Any time a couple is playing together, things are good. You two are obviously doing something right!

Not sure what you mean here. Is the cage too short? Or too long? A bit too short is fine. A bit too long is best avoided. A bit too wide is fine. ...

This could back-fire. If all I had to do to get her to let me suck on her breasts was to complain, I'd be complaining every second.

There are some pretty good sizing guides out there that I've used. The ring should be a tiny (!!!) bit smaller than you measure, just so you don't acc...