Once in awhile on rare occasions your husband will ejaculate. When this happens, he will tend to go through a process of reevaluation of himself and this new dynamic between you and him. Ejaculation is necessary as it keeps him interested in you. It also conditions the penis to stay hard by rewarding it with an ejaculation every once in awhile during an intercourse session. If he never ejaculated, eventually your husband may have erectile problems as he loses hope. And if the penis is never reinforced for getting an erection, it may also lose hope if I can anthropomorphise a penis. And we don't want the penis to lose hope now that our yoni is awake and it finally appreciates a hard penis that lasts and keeps coming back for more. Thanks to retention, I had 27 orgasms delivered by a rock hard penis today about an hour ago, and he's still hoping to give me more later.
Ejaculation is the off switch for a man. If you want to feel unwanted and neglected, just flip that switch. Once that switch is flipped, you may become the opposite of appealing to him. Things that aroused him before, may actually be repulsive to him after that switch has been flipped and his brain has dumped a boat load of chemicals, depleting norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide, and the hormone prolactin. This all activates the cingulate cortex and amygdala to call it quits. He then puts his pants on, makes an excuse about having to get up early and leaves you to clean up his mess.
It's sad to hear so many women mourn the fact that their male partner is no longer interested in them after they ejaculate. They don't understand why he would be that way after they've been so nice to them getting them off. They say things like, "I don't understand it. I have sex whenever he wants it, and he's not interested in me." It's disheartening to hear such a profound misunderstanding of male biology from a woman. That statement is the equivalent of me saying "Why is the light off. I flicked the switch to the off position. Why is the light off?!" When you turn him off, ladies, he wants nothing to do with you. In fact, at best you're probably just annoying him. At worst, he may be repulsed by you. It doesn't make sense given that five minutes ago he worshiped the ground you walked on does it? Most women I know want to turn their man on, and yet they're the cause of turning him off. Knowing what you just learned, why would you ever flip the ejaculation switch except for rarely and only if it's in the best interest of his health. Your husband wants to love, honor, adore and respect you. Why would you make these desires more difficult to have by permitting ejaculation. We need to get past the belief as a culture that ejaculation must happen for a man every time he has sex. When you have weekly companion inventories with your husband, these are the topics you can delve into and discuss. These are the creatures that lead and dominate our planet. Is it any longer a mystery why the world is in the state it's in?
I speculate that the sedating effect after ejaculation is mother nature's way of preventing the depleted man from exerting himself after he has drained so much of his reserve. Sleeping it off or relaxing for awhile before getting up to perform the next task would allow him time to conserve his energies and recuperate which could take hours or days after the release. I always insist my husband eat a can of oysters or take a zinc supplement the day of his ejaculation to help him replenish that vital nutrient he so generously releases in large amounts on his E-day.
Dr. Niel Stanley director of sleep at the University of Surrey says that legendary nap after sex which men are famous for is only specific to the human species. Some researchers assert that ejaculation is the equivalent to taking 2-3 mg of diazepam (valium). This link between sleep and sex is not known in the rest of the animal kingdom. I could probably enlighten him that this link between sleep and ejaculation isn't due to the human male as a unique species. It's due to depletion and sexual exhaustion. My husband isn't sleepy after retaining for 7 days or more and then ejaculating, but was wiped out with frequent daily ejaculation. Feeling ready for nap time after ejaculation is not normal. It's a sign of depletion and a man that needs some help to get on track with his health. Of course, male researchers don't see this because sex without ejaculation would be horrific to them.
This link between ejaculation and sleep is not seen in the animal kingdom because all animals except for primates don't have hands. As soon as man was able to grasp his penis as a species, he became depleted. Retention is more the rule than the exception in nature. In the animal kingdom, the opportunities to ejaculate are likely not occurring as often. Some animals will only be interested when the female is fertile and in heat, releasing pheromones to arouse the male.…
I would say this was all true for awhile. At some point my wife started pushing after my orgasm until i had to beg her to stop while she laughed and smiled mischievously. That and how she cleans me up leaves me immediately right back in submissive mode.
The only time i return to this PE phase is if we tried a new fantasy in talk that i wouldn’ be ready for in real life.
However if we try something new that lands true, i’m even more submissive than before.