In his 1948 studies, Alfred Kinsey found that 75 percent of American men achieved orgasm within two minutes of commencing intercourse. The female body takes much more time to awaken, plump up, and lubricate enhancing her sexual stimulation. If that's not an argument for semen retention, I don't know what is. This 1-2 minute time clearly illustrates the human male's lack of discipline and self control and is a strong argument for the female to step in and assist him in being disciplined with his ejaculation.
It's really hard to fathom that 75% of men could be that uncaring. 1-2 minutes is not sex, it's using a women's vagina as a masturbation aid. Is it any wonder that so many women are shut down sexually with this kind of experience? Women are capable of so much sexually. They can reach great heights obtaining many orgasms. Ironically, it's many women that are thought of as frigid or not sexual, and it's men that are thought of as more the sexual creatures. It's really quite the opposite. It's just that women are capable of such high performance, and men are capable of so little, that they don't even come close to starting that formula one engine that a women has that can run circles around the Volkswagen male libido. It's only when men retain their semen that their libido can then begin to outpace the woman. Retaining semen, my husband far out does me with his stamina. After he's given me 18 orgasms, he's still ready, pleading, begging to give me 18 more. If the male seed is not required for procreation, he should retain it according to the ejaculation schedule his wife has set for him and use that desire to help his wife transcend sexually, and transmute that stored energy into outward service. When he does not retain, that energy collapses into selfishness and laziness. Some practitioners of tantric sex aim to eliminate orgasm from sexual intercourse by remaining for a long time in the pre-orgasmic and non-emission state. Advocates claim that it eventually causes orgasmic feelings to spread out to all of one's conscious experience. I think this may be a worthwhile road for males to strive for as they are only capable of one orgasm resulting in the loss of jing (life essence). Women however are designed to be multi orgasmic, and they only build chi and jing with each orgasm, flooding their bodies with life giving energy.
Many women have not experienced or fully explored the varying ways the female body is able to reach orgasm. Taoist philosophy states that there are three gates to achieve this for the woman.
- The Clitoris
- The G spot
- The Cervix
The Clitoris:
When many women awaken, it's first with stimulation to their clitoris. They have their men perform sustained oral service on them because their penis has no stamina. This is a great thing as at least they are half way there, but it is ideal for the clitoris to work in harmony with the vagina. Sexual intercourse is the union between the yoni and the lingam. It's when this union happens that there is transcendence and an exchange of essence between the male and female body. It has been postulated that when the skin of the penis is stretched as taut as it can be that the pores open and the male can absorb the female essence. All this doesn't happen when the male is just licking between her legs. There is no union in that. With oral only, she has only awakened a portion of her potential. She must also awaken her sleepy vagina and enjoy the union between the yoni and lingam. When the male is trained for sustained thrusting, he is truly worthy of being inside a yoni.
The G spot:
Most of us have heard of and are familiar with the G spot which can be found just a couple of inches within the vagina towards the front of the body. A male can easily find and stimulate this area with a finger or two, and the male penis can easily reach this spot. Rather than just thrusting deeply with the penis in short strokes, it can be very satisfying having the male pull out further before thrusting back in so the G spot is stimulated by the head of the penis sliding across this location.…
