We are having fun with this so far, as it has greatly enhanced our sex life even with just this short run so far. The desired goal is to get him retaining his ejaculations for a period of 7 days with each cycle, and to completely eliminate self pleasuring for him. He is only permitted to ejaculate from intercourse with me and only upon receiving my final permission in each case. It is my belief that not only will his retention improve his overall health and mental well being, but also that these improvements will also naturally transcend into other aspects of his life - not limited to just our own partnership.
Outside of sex, semen retention and NO masturbation, I am also expecting him to improve his behavior in all other areas of life. This ranges from performance of all household tasks, his performance at his job, and any social functions we happen to be engaged in outside of the home. Any sub par performance in any of these other areas is also subject to application of correction. I am judge and jury in this and I am allowed to administer justice at my complete discretion.
In recognition of this, and to help motivate him with these significant behavioral enhancements, I pledge to him the following (most of these are a given regardless of his ability to retain etc. – but I thought it would be nice to put this in writing for him in the context of this discussion)
1) To express my love for him honestly and freely.
2) To treat him with respect.
3) To be a positive force in his life.
4) Fair and consistent application of corrections based on his
achievements and performance as a committed partner in our
special relationship.
5) Regular stimulation of his penis through intercourse.
Ejaculation to occur only per his E-day cycle.
6) Any other manner of sexual edging both mental and physical, in
any degree and quantity and at my total discretion to provide
suitable motivation and reward for good performance when I see
fit.
And finally a summary of where we are are with his retention program currently
Start of retention program: January 12th 2018
Current E-day interval: 7 days
Days into current retention cycle: 2
Number of E-days achieved: 0
Number of spillages and corresponding corrections: 1
Non Spillage related corrections applied: 0
Number of Orgasms for Sarah (running total since start of program): 4…
