Forced bi falls into the realm of consensual non-consent (CNC) — a form of play where consent is always present but the roles make it feel like control has been handed over. Even though "forced" is in the name, everyone involved must have given their full consent, with the ability to revoke that consent at any time. The concept of forced bi can take many forms, whether it's about guided exploration of bisexuality for the cuckold husband, or simply an act of deep submission that has nothing to do with sexual orientation. In many cases, it's far more about power dynamics and emotional vulnerability than the actual act itself.
Let's explore the fascinating world of forced bi and how this dynamic can become a powerful and emotional experience for couples.
One form of forced bi allows a cuckold husband to explore bisexuality in a structured and guided way. Maybe he’s curious but uncomfortable navigating these feelings on his own, or perhaps he doesn't identify as bisexual but is open to the experience in the context of submission. The power of this situation comes from the wife's direction and control, as she holds the reins and leads him through an intimate and often vulnerable journey.
For some husbands, the thought of kneeling before another man is tied to their deeper desires for submission, exploring new sensations, or simply showing love and loyalty to their wife. In this scenario, forced bi isn’t about the husband's sexual preferences — it's about submitting to his wife’s desires. What could be more intimate than stepping outside your comfort zone in such a vulnerable way, especially when it’s guided by your partner?
The key here is trust. As the wife, you're in the driver’s seat. Whether it's a one-time exploration or something you incorporate regularly into your relationship, knowing that your husband is trusting you with his vulnerability is deeply empowering. It’s an experience of shared growth and boundary-pushing, all wrapped in the safe cocoon of consent and love.
There's the venerable "it's not gay if my wife told me to do it" line which is funny at a surface level but also true when men need permission to explore. The whole idea isn’t necessarily about sexuality; it’s about submission and power. When you're in a female-led relationship, the wife’s desires guide your actions, and the focus shifts from personal orientation to pleasing her.…
I understand. Dominant men have occasionally forced their women into lesbian acts for their own gratification. Perhaps this is nature’s way of balancing the scales.
You know something I never thought of it that way you might have something there
I recognize that at some level this has to be consented to …… But that word forced Ugg it always makes me cringe 😬
I’d never be able to force anyone to do anything and I’d never let anyone force anyone else but that’s me
A woman and I were just discussing this the other week. I told her that, while I don’t really have any interest in men sexually, I’d love to do forced-bi for a partner. Maybe it’s humiliation, or maybe it’s just doing something for her enjoyment. I don’t really understand it.
“I told her that, while I don’t really have any interest in men sexually, I’d love to do forced-bi for a partner.”
I understand this completely. I have ZERO interest in playing with a man sexually for the sake of doing it. Although Mistress K. also has ZERO interest in seeing me do it, if she were to change her mind, and if it were something that she really wanted, it is not a hard enough limit that I would not comply.
I doubt that many women will enjoy this. Why does she need this? It seems to me that men are being disingenuous when they say that their fantasy of their humiliation is for their wives. Of course, this is for men, and only.
Emma may be playing along with us, the audience, here. Or is she the unicorn that all men are looking for 🙂 But I simply don’t believe in the mass pleasure of women from this. This is too much of a man’s fantasy.
I can see this coming from both sides, as someone who admittedly enjoys gay porn, I think it is extension of what turns me on. I like watching two men have sex just like many men like watching two women have sex. Double of what you like? why not. Kev and I both enjoy humiliation and domination, this is a great way for me to enjoy watching two men and experience the whole spectrum of sexuality. Kev isn’t overly gay but he falls somewhere that isn’t on one of the polar ends of the old Kinsey scale, as most of us do. It isn’t for everyone but most thing aren’t for everyone. If you like it, talk about it and try it. If you don’t like it, talk about it and don’t try it.
I think men having sex with men in any context is becoming more popular with women. I have been in conversation with several womem over the last year or so who are definitely into it. As somebody that falls awfully close to the middle of the Kinsey scale, the trend that I see is encouraging.
It is ridiculously hot especially when he is doing it FOR me.
In my (unscientific) studies, about half of women I’ve talked to who are interested in cuckolding said they were into “forced bi” type situations. It’s obviously not a large sample size, but it’s also not insignificant.
Both sides of a power exchange gets something out of the power exchange. It’s why both sides enter into that power exchange. Of course the man gets something out of it. If the woman doesn’t, they should probably talk about that.
I think you’re right that there’s a lot of men online whose view of cuckoldry or FLR are warped by what they watch in porn. But, that’s a larger problem.
On thing I have seen in the swinging community is that many women, perhaps near 50% like the idea of watching 2 men have sex. A part of this is these women like the idea of control and watching their male significant others swallow or receive anal, since these women were often challenged with these same activities.
It’s very erotic when a husband sucks a bull’s penis to be hard for me.
It is almost like he is giving his blessing and completely removing guilt from the experience. I know I personally carry so much guilt (thanks religion) and this really helps to absolve me of guilt and remind me that it is consensual play between adults.
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I find the most humilliant task the preparation of the bull.
We have forgotten cleaning up the bull too. 🙁
My favorite examples:
Preparation Examples
“Let’s be honest, baby. This is your role now—prepping the man who can actually satisfy me.” (New role)
“You’re the best little assistant, aren’t you? Helping out the bull so I can have my fun.”
“Don’t think too hard about it, baby. Just do your job and get him ready.”
“Oh, look at you, so eager to serve. Maybe if you’re lucky, I’ll let you clean me up after.”
“Don’t be shy. You’ve watched me do it enough times—now it’s your turn to get him ready for me.”
“Come on, baby, don’t keep me waiting. Get him hard so I can really enjoy myself while you watch.”
Cleanup Examples
“Well, don’t just stand there, sweetie. Time to clean up the mess you couldn’t make.”
“Aww, look at that pout! Don’t worry, you’ll get your taste now.”
“Guess who’s on cleanup duty? Get over here, you know what to do.”
“Come get your dessert, darling. It’s all waiting for you.”
“Don’t be shy, love. Come lick up what the real man left behind.”
“Guess who’s the cleanup crew tonight? Come on big guy, it’s all yours.”
“Come and get your little prize, you’ve been such a good boy waiting patiently.”
“Come here, baby, it’s your favorite flavor. You’ve been dying to taste it all night.”
“Time for my little guy’s favorite treat. Make sure you don’t miss a spot.”
“You know what to do, babe. Get on your knees and clean me up.”
“Come here, sweetie. He left something special just for you.”
“You wanted to be involved, right? Well, here’s your chance—start licking.” ( I love the command).
Thanks.
I think the most humbling would be actually submitting to penetration by the bull. The power dynamic involved in actively allowing the bull to sodomize you as a cuckold – especially if your wife watches you – is the peak in my mind. Especially since it is something so many wives would love to see.
If you are in chastity, the penetration by the bull can provide excellent prostate stimulation. And if you have been in chastity for some time, you can orgasm from stimulation the bull provides; and many wives love this.
The whole thing is so fascinating, the power dynamic at play between two men is intense!
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