FLR101 – Chapter 4: My man of steel, building his stamina.

The first thing I noticed as my husband practiced semen retention was the improvement of the quality of his erections.  They were like steel, and he was longer and thicker.  I wanted him to measure as we already knew what he was before from a couple of years ago.  He went from nearly 6 inches to a little more than 6 1/2 inches.  I could tell and very much appreciate the difference.  He was reaching spots he hadn't before with both length and width.  That's what heightened arousal can do for a penis.

You want him to be able to use this new found rod of steel to pump you for extended periods delivering multiple orgasms to you.  With training, my intercourse sessions with my husband went from good to fantastic. This is a method based in Karezza which will build stamina and intimacy.

At this point, try using these Karezza principles to kiss and be close without the pressure of sexual performance.  Just be intimate with him inside you for an extended period motionless moving just enough to maintain his erection.  Couples that do this, can do it for hours.  This is all about being intimate with just kissing and touching.  Start having daily 30 minute intimate bonding sessions with him where he inserts his penis in your vagina but doesn't move unless he can thrust for brief stints without ejaculating.

Your yoni (vagina) might be shut down after years of being with neglectful lovers that finished way before you were even getting warmed up.  We're going to work on awakening your yoni with these thirty minute sessions while he's inside you but doesn't move, or he moves just enough to maintain his erection.  If he's on the brink, he should maintain that with just enough movement to be his biggest without ejaculating.  You'll find you'll be able to draw energy from that.  If I feel him inside of me being any less than his biggest, I say in a firm authoritative tone "BIGGER."   He responds to that and does get bigger.  I then praise him for his big cock, and tell him how much I love big dicks which makes him even harder if that were possible.  Remember, males are penis centric.  These are just a few tips that may work for you.  They work for me.  When he's whimpering on the brink of ejaculating beneath me, that can propel me even faster to orgasm.  Use his passion to fuel you.  The union between your yoni and his lingam is building Jing  (Life Essence) for both of you.

He may be so aroused practicing semen retention that he won't last long, and we don't want any spill ruining his retention.  It's very beneficial for him to be on the edge.  You shouldn't feel like your torturing him.  His pleasure now is more intense than any sex he's had.  So, you need to be strong and support his retention and be firm with a "NO" if he's begging for ejaculation, reminding him of the averse consequence that will be applied if he ejaculates and let him know when his special day will be. …