Here’s a fun secret: most guys have a submissive streak hidden under their tough exterior. Yep, even the ones who act like they run the show. The more they puff up and protect their "dominance," the more likely they’re secretly curious about letting go. Why? Because being submissive takes guts and trust—two things a lot of men are scared to explore. But with the right moves, you can help him find the softer, more vulnerable side he probably doesn’t even know he has.
This isn’t about tricking or manipulating him—it’s about creating a playful, balanced relationship where you both get to be exactly who you are. Ready to help him unlock that inner sub? Let’s dive in!
You don’t want to jump in with both boots and shout, “You’re my sub now!” That’s a recipe for awkwardness. Instead, ease him into it by making dominance fun and flirty.
- Take charge in small ways. Tell him where to sit at dinner or pick the movie for your next date. Confidence is sexy, and these little moves show him how good it feels to let someone else take the lead.
- Playful teasing works wonders. A cheeky, “Good boys get rewarded,” when he does something sweet plants the seed. It’s fun, harmless, and hints at a dynamic he might not even realize he’s into—yet.
- Dress the part. Confidence is your superpower here. Whether it’s rocking a killer outfit or an extra sultry tone of voice, show him how irresistible a take-charge attitude can be.
The key to getting him to embrace his submissive side is knowing how to push the right buttons without freaking him out. Think of it as a slow, sexy game where you guide him step by step.
- Use physical touch to lead. Next time you’re out together, try guiding him by the hand or giving subtle commands like, “Wait here,” or, “Come with me.” It’s subtle but effective in building that dynamic.
- Give him tasks to “help” you. Maybe it’s holding your bag while you shop or massaging your shoulders after a long day. Framing it as “helping” makes it feel natural, and over time, he’ll associate following your lead with making you happy (and maybe getting a little reward).
- Make him comfortable with saying “yes.” Start by asking for small things you know he won’t resist, like, “Can you grab me some water?” or, “Would you open this for me?” These little yeses add up and build his trust in following your lead.
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