This is the first of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her.
I thought I'd share a companion inventory we had recently. During one of our intercourse sessions when he's in his half zombie state and quite out of his mind, he states that he wants to go back to "normal sex" and take a break from retention. In this state he loses all higher brain function and is oriented only toward the goal of ejaculation. I tell him he still has four days until his special day as I polish off orgasm #8 on his face and remind him to lick as he sometimes forgets when he loses brain function. I finish #9 and get up to clean myself and pee as he lies there moaning half conscious with a steel hard erection pointing to the ceiling with only the thought of ejaculation processing through what's left of his cognitive function. This is why following retention won't work unless I as a woman supervise it and make sure that he retains and have simple consequences that even someone that only has a lizard brain left can understand in this post intercourse moment.
A half hour later he wants to have a talk and states "No, really, maybe we should take a break from retention for about a month, and that I should think about it."
me: I thought about it and the answer is no.…