FLR101 – Sarah’s Experience: Chapter 2 “A Nervous Night”

Hi, Its just me Sarah with an update – sorry this will be a bit long but I think I need to get this all out …

I rolled the dice quite a bit last night and we ended up having a long conversation over a bottle of wine for me and some drinks for him. I needed a bit of fake courage to get over my nervousness about discussing this with him (huge understatement)…. I told him about my relationship concerns especially relating to my sexual satisfaction and his need to really step things up in and around the house (we have been sharing a home together before our pending marriage). He conceded that he could do better in these areas….

I then spoke to him about some things that I thought we should experiment with to see if it can enhance the dynamics of out relationship to change those things – and I directed him to your site at that time. I gave him instructions that I “please” wanted him to read everything on the site from top to bottom and that we could then talk about it further once he had done that. But that I really needed him to read your site in its entirety before I wanted to have any more conversation with him. I then left him with a fresh drink (I said he might need it half jokingly) and headed upstairs to our bedroom to wait it out. A couple of very long hours later he came upstairs to our bedroom – where I was laying in bed, waiting quite apprehensively for his return…. Those were some of the longest hours of my life, and I thought perhaps I had just screwed up our relationship royally….

He had a big sheepish smile on his face!!!!! Big sigh of relief from me!!!

He said he had read everything – a couple of times, and he thought overall it was all pretty hot and that most of it made some sense to him.  He wasn’t fully sure about the semen retention thing as that would be something which he had never tried before beyond a couple of days.  We talked, and he eventually admitted that he had been masturbating several times a day on average, but that he would be willing to try the retention out and see how things went….

I said “thats really great and I am so proud and happy with you right now for having said all of this and being so understanding.” I then went on to explain how nervous I had been waiting for him and how important I thought this little program would be to our future relationship. I then went on to say to him that we would start very slowly with this program and let it fit into our lives. I said for starters what do you think about trying out semen retention for a week?  Do you think you can handle that? After a bit of thought he said he was wiling to give that a try.  I then said with a bit of a naughty smile, you have to do more than try, what are your consequences going to be if you accidentally spill during the week? - that's a part of the program that we need to try out too….. Lets think about some good consequences we could use and then have you pick one of those out that we would use – but that it has to be an effective deterrent.  I then smiled and said before we both go any further, maybe we should put you in the right frame of mind and have you take off all of your clothes. I want you naked the rest of the night. He smiled and tore off his clothes.  He had a HUGE erection.  It was big and puffy, purple and very veiny! And I think I saw some pre-cum.  I said whats this and playfully slapped it with my hand.  I then said well you seem to be receptive to this discussion so lets get on with it and come up with some consequences for a spill...…