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Male Chastity Beauty Contest
If you are like me, you love the look of a neatly caged specimen and adore the lines of a nicely fitted cage. The confidence that it inspires for...
What does sex mean to men?
When men think about sex a lot, we assume it has something to do with testosterone. But men’s urgency about sex is not always about physical desire only. Sex can...
Three ways to tell if he can handle his cuckold fantasy
Your fella confessed that he has a fantasy of watching you with another man. That is a pretty big leap for even the most secure relationship. While many of...
10 Ways Men Can Feel Sexy
In our culture, the female form embodies sexy and men are not permitted the luxury of feeling sexy. Did you know that only 12.1 percent of men between the...
Locktober For Dummies: A Step By Step Guide
Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober...
Don’t want to have sex? Lock him up!
You knew what he was going to ask before he asked it. His body language said it all. He says something awkward like "hey baby, want to get jiggy...
I got a new job. Go me!
I am just taking a moment to brag here so forgive me for diving into the spotlight for a moment. I rushed home from a job interview to write...
Behind The Scenes: Always getting better
It is insane to think that this site has been around for nearly three years in one form or another. I started reading the now defunct FLR 101 blog...
Playful & Silly: The key to a lasting and loving relationship!
I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other's eyes. As I sat with my coffee...
How can I be a good husband to my wife?
The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to...
The Locktober 2021 Challenge – Let’s fight testicular cancer together!
We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month to...
Can cuckolding be a validation of his love for you?
This won't be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and...
Is your marriage symbiotic or parasitic?
The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think...
Men: Tell her exactly how you can be her best partner!
There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men...
Modern Marriage: A wonderful sex life is not optional!
It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic...
What can sperm competition bring to your marriage?
In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our...
Girls Rule & Boys Drool: How can I be more sexually confident?
Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely....
Quit feeling guilty about sex!
For women it seems like sex and guilt go hand in hand. If we sleep with him too soon, we feel guilty. If we sleep with too many guys,...
How big of a problem is his masturbation?
Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what's the big deal? The...
Fetish Definitions: I’ve got a philia that you’re gonna like some of these
Paraphilia - The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals.Objectophilia - Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects.Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia - Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects.Agalmatophilia - Sexual...
Be careful fellas, the witches might steal your penis!
This isn't going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man's penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with...
A unique approach to cure delayed ejaculation
Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I've written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog...
What the Heck are Reverse Pegging and Fauxing?
We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on...
Cleaning Up: Quit Being Squeamish About Creampies!
I wrote a blog a few years ago entitled to eat his own where I tasked Kev with tasting his own baby batter. I've tasted cum, his tastes as...
Why would I lock his penis in a cage?
My husband of twelve years just told me that he wants me to lock his penis in a metal cage. I didn't even know what to say! I searched...