A few years ago I gave away a Cell Mate remote chastity device and the amazing folks at lockthecock.com have graciously offered to sponsor another giveaway for not just...

Interpersonal relationships are complex and many of us will agree that marriage is an outdated construct. That doesn't have to mean that partnering with another individual with the intention...

Male chastity. A topic I absolutely adore. Why do I love male chastity so much? Let me count the ways! The male orgasm is wonderful and I love experiencing this...

Emma, Thank you so much for running this website. It gives us some great information on this lifestyle. Learning about this lifestyle is not always easy since there is...

Your dick is not big enough to fully satisfy me sexually. I attract younger and more fit men, why would I settle for one man? How do those words...

I (F38) am married to my husband (M40) and have a boyfriend (M33) who comes over and visits a few times a month. He (boyfriend) is in an open...

I've got a few blogs that I am in the middle of writing but I've been meaning to post about the Sex and Psychology Podcast for some time. This...

My wheels are turning, three blogs in three consecutive days? Who am I? I think my mind is just incredibly fueled by the wonderful comments and dialog that my...

Yesterday I posted a blog entitled Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective and shortly after, I received some private messages from readers. Some were supportive while others were...

This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just fine as a standalone blog,...

Emma, First off, thank you for maintaining such a great website. Your articles have been pivotal in feeling more comfortable about my wife and I's desires. I'm reaching out...

Some couples have a song, perhaps the song that they danced to at their wedding. Some couples have a place such as their honeymoon location or another place that...

This is one that works especially well for the husbands that aren't great about opening up about their fantasies and their feelings. It works by getting them out of...

In my previous blog, we discussed orgasms and how controlling male orgasms can be integral to the satisfaction potential of your relationship. I'll do my best to make this...

Let's first outline what denial is and why men find it exciting. Denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences or excitement. Pretty simple right? Denial is not...

Emma, Thank you so much for your articles, I can relate to so much of what you write. My name is Tanya (not my real name) I am 46,...

I am not a dominatrix. I am not a mistress. I don't believe in female supremacy. I don't think women should rule the world. I don't even think that...

This site has been around in one form or another for five years. Five years. That is an eternity in internet years but not really that long in terms...

It is common knowledge that many kinks are born of insecurities, the incredible human brain sexualizes potentially hurtful things and makes us embrace them. Weird and counterintuitive but it...

Recent convert here so I feel like I am uniquely positioned to talk about this topic. If you read my previous blogs, you will know that I've been mostly...

Kev and I are newlyweds, we got hitched just two short months ago. While he and I are in our honeymoon period on paper, we've been together for years....

I was thinking in the shower as I often do and I thought to myself; self, many of these fetishes that Kev and I enjoy dance around the bigger...

We've started his new 6 week schedule, and he's past the two week mark.  I wasn't really expecting much at this stage.  Maybe it's the fact that his E-day...

Sorry for delay in my posting but some things came up in the family which distracted me (nothing too serious fortunately). Well I guess everyones big question is – did...

Why are sexual needs so difficult for us to talk about? If you are hungry, you talk about how to satiate your hunger. If you are bored, you talk...