I'd like to introduce everyone to Miss Fit, who has a virtual fitness program that uses chastity to help achieve fitness results. As you may recall, Kev and I...

It is no secret that about 80% of male chastity is initiated by the male and in this blog I provide context and encourage men to communicate about the...

If you are like me, you love the look of a neatly caged specimen and adore the lines of a nicely fitted cage. The confidence that it inspires for...

When men think about sex a lot, we assume it has something to do with testosterone. But men’s urgency about sex is not always about physical desire only. Sex can...

Your fella confessed that he has a fantasy of watching you with another man. That is a pretty big leap for even the most secure relationship. While many of...

In our culture, the female form embodies sexy and men are not permitted the luxury of feeling sexy. Did you know that only 12.1 percent of men between the...

Locktober is a fun and sexy challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship and dabble into the world of male chastity. Locktober...

You knew what he was going to ask before he asked it. His body language said it all. He says something awkward like "hey baby, want to get jiggy...

I am just taking a moment to brag here so forgive me for diving into the spotlight for a moment. I rushed home from a job interview to write...

It is insane to think that this site has been around for nearly three years in one form or another. I started reading the now defunct FLR 101 blog...

I was at a local coffee shop and saw the cutest old couple sipping their coffee and staring lovingly into each other's eyes. As I sat with my coffee...

The fact that you are even asking how you can be a better husband speaks volumes. In this blog you will find conventional wisdom supplemented some unconventional ways to...

We are well into September and that means we need to start making preparations for Locktober 2021 festivities. For those new to the annual ritual, this is the month...

This won't be a blog to validate non-monogamy or cuckolding, that is a topic for another day. In this blog I am simply exploring the appeal among men and...

The world around us is full of mutually beneficial symbiotic relationships! Think of the bee and the flower, barnacles on whales the list goes on and on. Now think...

There is a big disconnect in the world of male chastity. Men like to hint to their partner about wanting to be locked up. In many cases the men...

It is no secret that marriages are difficult. In fact; up to 63% of marriages end in divorce according to a recent statistic. That statistic was before the pandemic...

In and of itself, the human mating process is a very simple thing. Boy puts his thing inside girls thing until one or both of their bodies climax. Our...

Sexual confidence is about one thing, taking control. Once you are in control confidence comes naturally but feeling like you are worthy of taking control is another thing entirely....

For women it seems like sex and guilt go hand in hand. If we sleep with him too soon, we feel guilty. If we sleep with too many guys,...

Many girlfriends and wives know that their man masturbates but they may not know the extent of the problem. Once or twice a week, what's the big deal? The...

Paraphilia - The sexual arousal to atypical objects, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals. Objectophilia - Sexual or romantic attraction focused on particular inanimate objects. Mechaphilia/Mechanophilia - Interest/Attraction towards mechanic/technological objects. Agalmatophilia - Sexual...

This isn't going to be a blog about a dominatrix permanently locking a man's penis. This is going to be a blog about history and the male obsession with...

Male ejaculation is fascinating to me, almost as fascinating as my own orgasms. I've written about delayed ejaculation and ejaculation training but it might be time for another blog...

We all know that pegging is when a woman penetrates her (typically) male partner with a strap-on. Reverse is the opposite of that with the man wearing the strap-on...