We've been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I've been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven't...

The dictionary defines compersion as: The feeling of joy one has experiencing another's joy, such as in witnessing a toddler's joy and feeling joy in response. You can think of compersion...

I've been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn't going to be an...

We've been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. ?? What would you call it,...

In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can...

This is part 2 of Vegas Ang’s Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...

Male Sex Hormones Here are some details about the sex hormones that make all of this so exciting: We hear a lot about testosterone, and it is a huge thing in...

This is part 1 of Vegas Ang's Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...

Alright maybe men aren't boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big...

As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule...

Typically men find themselves most attracted to women their age or younger. Women, on the other hand usually find men older than them to be most attractive. The male...

This isn't going to be an article about the twisted underworld of chastity, this is about feelings. This is about ensuring that the feelings that you are hoping to...

In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you...

So much of the material that you find on the internet about male submission and female dominance tends to minimize the value of the submissive man. If a man...

2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent the relationship that we have...

When you deem the timing appropriate, your man will need to be allowed a release. The timing of this is completely up to you but usually ranges between one...

If you haven't read my article entitled taking the reigns and you are new to the concept of a female led relationship I would recommend that you start there. Enforced...

The concept of bartering involves one party giving something to another party in exchange for something of similar value. As one of the world's oldest professions, prostitution is the...

I had a conversation with a friend of mine - she knows all about my love for keeping my fella under lock and key. So far she has shied...

No blog today, just an April Fools pic to get your day going.

Aren't they all? Seriously though. This guy has an unrealistic expectation of sex in this relationship. He may have gotten into a relationship expecting that he would have daily...

We are obviously a sex-positive blog and I found this infographic to be very interesting. I haven't fact checked all of the points and it doesn't really have sources...

Looking good for your partner is an important thing for every relationship. Sometimes you feel like your partner may need a bit of work to motivate him to get...

Pegging is new, pegging is exciting, pegging is scary. Read my previous blog about how pegging feels to a woman. In his newly discovered and highly emotionally aware state, he...

We tried the honor system. We tried it, didn't have any slip-ups and it worked but it wasn't as fun for either of us. Kevin got his weekly release...