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What Kind of Man
What kind of man allows a woman to lock up his penis? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? This kind of humiliation? Emasculation?...
Starting Out – Part 3
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it.
So we left...
EvolvingYourMan.com
So you made it to the new site, thanks for coming along for the ride. What do you think? If you've linked or bookmarked the old one, please update...
Starting Out – Part 2
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it.
In the previous post,...
Its Not All Fun and Games
Its not all fun and games. But sometimes it is.
Some Fun Games To Play
This can be tough for the male but here are some games to make the teasing...
Delayed Ejaculation
This post is about understanding and treating ejaculatory disability/retarded ejaculation by conditioning the penis and male body to regain the ability to orgasm through sexual intercourse and oral stimulation....
Starting Out – Part 1
I've received messages from other ladies asking how I can come into a relationship and "demand" that the guy be accepting of orgasm control. I'd like to set the...
What Kind of Man: The Boss
It seems that quite a few guys that have commented and messaged me are not submissive men by any stretch of the word. These men are sensible men with...
N̶e̶w̶ ̶S̶it̶e̶ Not Yet
TL;DR;So after reading all of your comments and realizing what I've actually enjoyed about this blog, I've decided to keep things as-is for now.
The thing I've really enjoyed with...
Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101)
This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her.
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New Site, Who Dis?
Alright so my friend Andrea (not her real name) and I spent the last week or so and most of the day today working on the idea and programming...
Sharing the Magic
Hi everyone, first post of 2019! I had a request to write about one of the times that I shared my favorite relationship secret with one of my friends....
The Future
Over the course of the last few months I've been telling my girlfriends about the benefits of chastity (much to the dismay of their boyfriends/husbands). One of my best...
26 Reasons to ? the ? in your modern marriage.
A bunch of reasons in no particular order. I'll probably add to them over time as the benefits keep rolling in. Feel free to add your own in the...
Ejaculation Frequency
So how often should he be allowed to cum?
Traditional Chinese medicine teaches the following:
“A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculation frequency of twice monthly...
To Eat His Own
Those of you that have been following along have seen that I am genuinely not interested in the fetish side of things. I am really just looking to use...
Holding the Power
We had a discussion today that made me think of this. My guy trusts me to hold the power of his orgasms and I ration them back to him...
Feeling Normal
We had an interesting conversation this evening that I decided to share with you despite family being in town and all of the Christmas festivities in the household this...
Pressure To Have Sex
One of the best things about locking your man is the complete removal of pressure to have sex. Previously I would feel like we would flirt through the day...
So You Want Her To Lock You Up?
I started this blog a month or two ago and the single biggest question is from guys asking how they can get their girlfriends or wives to lock them...
Sex Schedule
Are you a monster? Scheduling sex takes the fun out of it! You might think so but I've found that setting expectations and taking privileges away if life gets...
Teasing Him
Teasing is one of the best things about having your man on a release cycle as it allows you to exert your dominance on him. Whether locked or not,...
Reader Letter: Are There Self Esteem Issues? (FLR101)
This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes...
The Self Perception and Purpose of the Retaining Male (FLR101)
This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her.
Once...
Preparing Your Yoni To Receive The Retaining Man’s Lingam (FLR101)
This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her.
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