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Starting Out – Part 4
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it. As we left...
Male Chastity: The Joys of Teasing Him
I've never been an overly extroverted person, in fact I really have to make an effort to be outgoing in social situations. Relationships are much of the same. When...
Male Chastity: The Three Day Itch
Kevin was good last week, Sunday came around and he got his weekly release. I decided not to lock him up this week. We don't do that every week,...
Relationships: How should you feel about porn?
How do I feel about porn? I don't have a problem with porn. In fact I enjoy watching porn. I don't feel like it is demeaning to women. I don't...
What Kind of Man
What kind of man allows a woman to lock up his penis? Why on earth would he subject himself to this sort of treatment? This kind of humiliation? Emasculation?...
Starting Out – Part 3
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it. So we left...
EvolvingYourMan.com
So you made it to the new site, thanks for coming along for the ride. What do you think? If you've linked or bookmarked the old one, please update...
Starting Out – Part 2
This is a continuation of the previous post entitled Starting Out. You probably want to catch up on that one if you haven't already read it. In the previous post,...
Its Not All Fun and Games
Its not all fun and games. But sometimes it is. Some Fun Games To Play This can be tough for the male but here are some games to make the teasing...
Delayed Ejaculation
This post is about understanding and treating ejaculatory disability/retarded ejaculation by conditioning the penis and male body to regain the ability to orgasm through sexual intercourse and oral stimulation....
Starting Out – Part 1
I've received messages from other ladies asking how I can come into a relationship and "demand" that the guy be accepting of orgasm control. I'd like to set the...
What Kind of Man: The Boss
It seems that quite a few guys that have commented and messaged me are not submissive men by any stretch of the word. These men are sensible men with...
N̶e̶w̶ ̶S̶it̶e̶ Not Yet
TL;DR;So after reading all of your comments and realizing what I've actually enjoyed about this blog, I've decided to keep things as-is for now. The thing I've really enjoyed with...
Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101)
This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. "Hi...
New Site, Who Dis?
Alright so my friend Andrea (not her real name) and I spent the last week or so and most of the day today working on the idea and programming...
Sharing the Magic
Hi everyone, first post of 2019! I had a request to write about one of the times that I shared my favorite relationship secret with one of my friends....
The Future
Over the course of the last few months I've been telling my girlfriends about the benefits of chastity (much to the dismay of their boyfriends/husbands). One of my best...
26 Reasons to 🔒 the 🍆 in your modern marriage.
A bunch of reasons in no particular order. I'll probably add to them over time as the benefits keep rolling in. Feel free to add your own in the...
Ejaculation Frequency
So how often should he be allowed to cum? Traditional Chinese medicine teaches the following: “A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculation frequency of twice monthly...
To Eat His Own
Those of you that have been following along have seen that I am genuinely not interested in the fetish side of things. I am really just looking to use...
Holding the Power
We had a discussion today that made me think of this. My guy trusts me to hold the power of his orgasms and I ration them back to him...
Feeling Normal
We had an interesting conversation this evening that I decided to share with you despite family being in town and all of the Christmas festivities in the household this...
Pressure To Have Sex
One of the best things about locking your man is the complete removal of pressure to have sex. Previously I would feel like we would flirt through the day...
So You Want Her To Lock You Up?
I started this blog a month or two ago and the single biggest question is from guys asking how they can get their girlfriends or wives to lock them...
Sex Schedule
Are you a monster? Scheduling sex takes the fun out of it! You might think so but I've found that setting expectations and taking privileges away if life gets...
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Having Fun With It
What is CFNM? An interview with Marie CFNM
For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude....
Discipline
Punishment & Correction
2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent...
About Him
Lazy Husband? 5 steps to motivate him to be a better partner
Do you have a husband who is lazy & unmotivated? Are you looking for ways to help regain some excitement in your marriage and...
Chastity
Male Chastity: Getting comfortable with a locked husband or boyfriend
One of the more challenging parts of incorporating chastity into your otherwise vanilla relationship is getting comfortable with a lock and key becoming part...
About Her
Be your husband’s ultimate fantasy!
We evolve men, that's just what we do around here at the EYM palace. Sometimes you evolve your man so much and you decide...
Getting Started
Introduction: Taking the Reins
Managing modern relationships can be difficult for both genders. Women can find this especially challenging due to all of the expectations of today's woman....
About Him
Ask Agni: A Wife’s Perspective About Male Chastity
Male chastity and strict orgasm control became an important part of my hubby’s experience last summer. Before you decide to lock up your hubby’s penis,...
About Her
The Ideal Penis is… Locked!
The ideal penis is a locked penis, for many reasons. The reason that you choose to lock him is going to be individual to...
FLR 101
FLR101 – Read this first
I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider. Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider...
About Her
Yes. I Cuckold My Husband: My Perspective
This blog is intended to be a followup to my popular "What is the appeal of a hotwife relationship". While it should read just...
