Do you have any simple advice on what I as a husband can do and say that reinforces my wife's desire to be boss and free in our relationship?
I dream of getting even deeper into my submissive position in marriage and that I will stay in a way that seduces my wife's desire and joy to be the dominant goddess in the relationship and daily life.
She is now the one who controls our finances and she knows that she has the last word. But it still seems like she has periods when she doesn't like me obeying her.
Sometimes I get the feeling that she lets me lick her cunt because she knows I love it and we hadn't had sex in over a year when she rode me the other day. I finished by licking her after intercourse.
Could it be that she needs a lover?
We have a lot of sex where I satisfy her orally and I hold back so I don't come without her demanding it and never more than once a week.
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I have the deepest respect and gratitude for the work you do to help the dominant women flourish and to help us men find and understand our rightful submissive position and place beneath you Ladies and especially our wives who have it.
So would be very grateful if you could give some advice on these things.
Submissive and grateful regards, from submissive husband Geir from Norway
It sounds like she is stepping in and out of a dominant role in your relationship. This may be a great way for her to decide when she wants to be dominant and when she wants to relax her dominance. It can be exhausting to be dominant all the time and an exhausting relationship is not a happy relationship. Can you imagine having to be "on" all the time? Figure out the areas where she asserts dominance and let her have that dominance while letting her be more relaxed in other areas. If you make this easy on her, with time she will feel more confident and grow into those areas where she takes to the dominant role. You can't make her be dominant, if you could - wouldn't that make you the dominant one?
Cheers and thanks for the message! I hope you found it helpful - does anyone else have any advice or thoughts for Geir and his dominant wife in Norway?
It sounds like she is stepping in and out of a dominant role in your relationship. This may be a great way for her to decide when she wants to be dominant and when she wants to relax her dominance.
Figure out the areas where she asserts dominance and let her have that dominance while letting her be more relaxed in other areas. If you make this easy on her, with time she will feel more confident and grow into those areas where she takes to the dominant role. You can't make her be dominant, if you could - wouldn't that make you the dominant one?
Cheers and thanks for the message! I hope you found it helpful - does anyone else have any advice or thoughts for Geir and his dominant wife in Norway?
Thank you for your good answer Goddess Emma!
You are so right. Femalelead realaitionship should not be about what I, as a husband, feel I want from her dominance, but about how she would prefer it!
I will follow it up. Must be careful to be very submissive in all areas where I notice that she enjoys controlling both me and what is happening.
But I will also try and not ask her in detail about the things that I have noticed she gets frustrated and annoyed by me asking about.
Would it also be a good idea if I ask her if there are any areas she would like me to take care of without disturbing her about the matter?
