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IS many here who is in or looking for or enjoys chastity without cuckolding? Semen retention without cuckolding? I am very interested in hear about others ideas... experiences
Yes. Although it may not seem like it, there are a few of us here who enjoy chastity, semen retention, orgasm control, and denial, ruined orgasms, and all the trappings of a Wife Led Marriage/Female Led relationship, without the need for the wife to have to fuck other men!
Posted : 09/07/2024 1:41 pm
IS many here who is in or looking for or enjoys chastity without cuckolding? Semen retention without cuckolding? I am very interested in hear about others ideas... experiences
So, if you are counting hands, mine would be up for both, but for different reasons. While we are both very into orgasm control, tease and denial, ruined orgasms, and other facets of semen retention, cuckolding is a hard limit for us. We know not everyone feels the way we do, but for both of us, the purpose of sex is that it is a tool for intimacy between us. We cannot see my wife having sex with anyone without having some kind of personal feelings for that person. If she didn’t, she would not be interested in having sex with him (or her). We both agree that cuckolding has to involve some degree of humiliation which will eventually lead to resentment. Humiliation and degradation are our two principal hard limits.
As for chastity, my wife enjoys knowing that I voluntarily abstain because of my commitment to the principles of our FLR rather than because she forces me to. I am occasionally in my Mature Metal Rings of Commitment (like I am right now), but it is because I choose to put them on because she is away and I am comforted by the ever-present reminder that he is my Mistress and my orgasms belong to her. So, 95% of the time I am on the honor system. I am granted about 4 orgasms per month under her strict control and permission and have not masturbated to an orgasm outside of her presence and without her direct command in well over two years.
Posted : 09/07/2024 6:33 pm
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@allabouther awesome no not looking for hands looking for the members ideas ... thank you so much for your answer its great
Posted : 10/07/2024 2:34 pm
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IS many here who is in or looking for or enjoys chastity without cuckolding? Semen retention without cuckolding? I am very interested in hear about others ideas... experiences
Absolutely. My relationship made a progression to cuckolding but it is not a logical progression. It is simply a decision that we decided to make. There are many, many couples who choose to practice lockup and semen retention as a means of harnessing erotic energy. My early blogs are very focused on this and I outright rejected cuckolding, I didn't even like the connotation of the word. We decided to take the leap, it was right for us but by no means will it be the right decision for all and we will be respectful of whatever you choose. Thanks for being here!
Posted : 14/07/2024 8:34 am
Topic starter
IS many here who is in or looking for or enjoys chastity without cuckolding? Semen retention without cuckolding? I am very interested in hear about others ideas... experiences
Absolutely. My relationship made a progression to cuckolding but it is not a logical progression. It is simply a decision that we decided to make. There are many, many couples who choose to practice lockup and semen retention as a means of harnessing erotic energy. My early blogs are very focused on this and I outright rejected cuckolding, I didn't even like the connotation of the word. We decided to take the leap, it was right for us but by no means will it be the right decision for all and we will be respectful of whatever you choose. Thanks for being here!
Posted : 14/07/2024 9:01 pm
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That is awesome i am a strong masochistic sub as well ... open to most but i am wondering about others
Posted : 14/07/2024 9:02 pm
it was after our third stillborn, she was NOT interested in sex. So after 3 months of begging, bartering, I chose chastity to give myself time to clear my mind during times my body thought it needed it. now, 9 yrs later, 2 yrs after she left, I am still happy to be able to think instead of act.
Posted : 18/07/2024 3:08 pm
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I have yes but I am self locked so it’s probably a whole lot different for me than it is for someone who is locked by somebody else as I can obviously release myself whenever I like although I choose not to, I must admit that being in a cuckhold relationship is something that would love to try.
Posted : 07/08/2024 1:21 am
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To be clear, i have been cuckolded, just not why i was locked. changed my life.
Posted : 26/09/2024 7:13 am
1subdawg reacted
I think that the majority of men who practise chastity (and countless other kinks) with their SOs are not into cuckolding, and that the latter is an outlier. Getting into chastity, which generally involves the man having to introduce and persuade his partner to try, is infinitely easier (I assume) than the mechanics of finding third partners and bulls - and without neighbours starting to suspect.
In our monogamous FLR the sounds of my maintenance canings can be heard through walls and windows - and that's without any sounds I add.
Posted : 30/09/2024 5:29 am
I think that the majority of men who practise chastity (and countless other kinks) with their SOs are not into cuckolding, and that the latter is an outlier. Getting into chastity, which generally involves the man having to introduce and persuade his partner to try, is infinitely easier (I assume) than the mechanics of finding third partners and bulls - and without neighbours starting to suspect.
In our monogamous FLR the sounds of my maintenance canings can be heard through walls and windows - and that's without any sounds I add.
Posted : 30/09/2024 5:29 am
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IS many here who is in or looking for or enjoys chastity without cuckolding? Semen retention without cuckolding? I am very interested in hear about others ideas... experiences
YES! I been just locked in for the first time this week. The picture is from the locking
My wife does not cuckold me and even though I have fantasized a lot about and in my heart wanted her to feel free to have sex with whoever she wants, I have never dared to tell her that I would be very horny and happy for her if she got to experience fantastic sex with another as well. So yes. Im locked in chastety cage now with put cuckolding from my Wife in charge!
Posted : 23/11/2024 3:10 am
We also do not yet do cuckold.
She enjoys having me locked in chastity with a spiked cage.
We went on vacation with another couple, it was a isolated beach house.
We were there for two weeks.
I was naked and locked all the time.
The other couple had no issues.
In fact one night I was the subject of intense CBT. I was suspended naked outside by the pool by my arms. The other wife enjoyed whipping me.Her husband just kept reading his books.
I was locked all 2 weeks.
Ray
The longer I am locked the more submissive I become. After about a week in chastity I become very focused on her needs. In fact, any woman's needs.
It is a wonderful benefit for her, and I like it.
Ray
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