I'm glad you enjoyed it <3

RE: Response to Emma do you enjoy pegging your man and do you like fucking some in the asshole more than someone fucking you in your asshole 

I enjoy pegging and I'm not a huge fan of receiving anal.

How does that effect your approach with your husband Emma? I know you have written many articles here and I am sure you have covered it. I have watched it in videos but intellectually or psychologically I don’t have a connection with it. I don’t mean I wouldn’t do it; I mean the thought doesn’t have a connection in my mind. I find so many things funny. Funny as in strange. I just wonder all the time why I think what I do, why I feel what I do. I saw a video of a wife using a leather paddle on her husband. I didn’t get that and then it clicked strongly. I saw article here, yet to read, on the husband being sent into the corner. That click too. It’s taken me a lot longer to form a mental understanding with chastity cages but I do have a much better understanding now. I can see that pegging will play a specific and important role. I am just not there yet.

Sorry for all if this but you triggered my thinking when you said you don’t like anal yourself. I do understand your pleasure from it and your use of it are two unrelated things. I am just thinking without a line of thinking. I just need to focus a bit on it and read sof your excellent articles. 

I also want to say that I do think your articles are excellent. I was listening to a podcast last night, of a lady I have followed in the past; and I felt I didn’t really learn anything or have any thoughts. Well a podcast is completely different to a short focused article but there is something about your writing I prefer.

Thank you Emma

Hi Emma. Relatively new here.

Just wanted to drop you a line to say thank you for the site. It's quite something. I'm learning a lot, especially around denial of my orgasm which is something I will be getting used to in the coming weeks and months (no pun intended!).