My husband and I talked about last night. It was exciting for both of us. We'll do it again next weekend. Many men and women tend not to appreciate submissive men and then humiliate them. A submissive man has a role to play and no one should humiliate him for it.
Many men and women tend not to appreciate submissive men and then humiliate them. A submissive man has a role to play and no one should humiliate him for it.
Nicely said and I agree. Humiliation for the sake of humiliation is dangerous and could cause irreparable damage. If the humiliation itself is something that is a source of excitement and arousal for both partners ... well that a different story entirely.
@subhubphx I agree that humiliation can do real emotional damage, so one has to be careful with it. But the right kind of humiliation in the right situation with the right people can be really hot.
Suzanna is right, of course, that there is nothing inherently humiliating about being a sexually submissive man. Though some of us are turned on by playful humiliation, beyond the erotic game we all need to feel respected and valued by our partners.