@stan. Thank you, Stan. This discussion has been of great interest to me because of my own situation. I hope our lengthy back-and-forth hasn’t anno...

@stan. Thanks, Stan. Yes, it does suck to have PC, but it could be worse. It could have been the aggressive type. The worst thing is the uncertainty...

@stan The point I was making was that based on the statistics, the cancer risk of orgasm denial is closer to the risk of such lifestyle choices as a d...

@stan. Full disclosure: this topic is interesting to me because I already have both ED and prostate cancer. I was diagnosed with a “low grade prostat...

@stan. Stan, it strikes me that the difference between this and climate science is that climate scientists understand the causal link between carbon e...

@dharmaproject. Thanks for that perspective. You are right that there are too many unknowns to make definitive causal connections between prostate ca...

@stan. Damn! According to the statistics you cite, my idea of moderate orgasm denial increases the risk of prostate cancer more than extreme orgasm de...

@mstara. Thanks for your response, Mstara. I totally get the idea of shifting the focus of your marriage away from sex, where sex is narrowly defined...

@stan. Having been treated for prostate problems, I have talked to urologists and I have read quite a bit about prostate health, and I think you are r...

@stan Stan, thank you for acknowledging that you had overlooked the piece of the puzzle concerning consent. I haven’t read all of Emma’s blog posts...

Matara, my wife and I spoon like that, except that I don’t wear a cage. The masochist in me would like to have the experience of being caged, but I lo...

@stan Out of curiosity, where did you find all of these case studies about psychological harms done by dommes forcing “straight, submissive men” to ...

@stan wrote: “I began researching everything I could find on cuckolding. What I found was that in actual practice... it is usually very destructive. ...

@stan. I think I understand your point. Basically, it concerns the importance of consent in a dominant/submissive relationship. You are concerned tha...

@stan Stan, I will say that your reading of the nature of the relationship between my wife and me is accurate. I would just point out that our marr...