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  • mstara on In Defense of Submissive Men: “I can see both sides of the coin here, both the desire for the man to classify themselves as being…Sep 22, 05:36
  • DianeJ on In Defense of Submissive Men: “I’m kind of late to the party and trying to catch up as best I can, using “recent comments” as…Sep 21, 20:26
  • subhubphx on In Defense of Submissive Men: “I know I’m late with a reply to this old post, but this was too excellent not to acknowledge: “The…Sep 21, 13:35
  • jd on Moving In: “Hi Emma, I tend to agree with much of the caution that has been articulated by others already. I’d imagine…Sep 21, 13:20
  • subhubphx on Moving In: ““…but one of the things that I enjoy is the unfairness of chastity. Being reminded everyday that I’m not allowed…Sep 21, 10:49
  • mstara on Moving In: “Forgive me for being a little dim here, but would the plan be for you all to sleep in the…Sep 21, 09:05
  • dharmaproject on Moving In: “I agree this is a big step but having a hard end date will help since everyone knows that it…Sep 21, 08:22
  • subhubphx on Moving In: ““One thing you might notice is that the conversation between Kevin and I didn’t happen until Andrew left.” I believe…Sep 21, 07:11
  • timothysawthers on Moving In: “I don’t think you doing anything wrong in this situation as you are holding fast to your original principle of…Sep 20, 22:13
  • Herma on Moving In: “Emma, perhaps you enjoy pushing boundaries. But what about your guys? Can Andrew stay over for a few days before…Sep 20, 18:39
  • Emma on Moving In: “I see where you are coming from there and that same concern has been communicated from Kevin. I think we…Sep 20, 17:16
  • Emma on Moving In: “It certainly started because Andrew said that he was thinking of moving and we were of course surprised. Once we…Sep 20, 17:12
  • Emma on Moving In: “Yeah, that had crossed our mind as well. Thank you for the support.Sep 20, 17:08
  • subhubphx on Moving In: “to DianeJ: Glad you like it.Sep 20, 10:59
  • subhubphx on Moving In: “Yeah, I thought about this some more and some things occurred to me that I hadn’t thought through in my…Sep 20, 05:26
  • mstara on Moving In: “Three people in a very small apartment for any length of time sounds like purgatory to me. Add in the…Sep 20, 03:09
  • subhubphx on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: “Love this. Thank you MsTara!Sep 19, 13:24
  • subhubphx on Moving In: “Thanks for the kind words on our communication muscles. Well lately I haven’t needed much more than Evolving Your Man.…Sep 19, 13:18
  • timothysawthers on Moving In: “I’m really curious about the power dynamics here. I know Kevin is your partner (fiancé) here and holds the higher…Sep 19, 12:51
  • DianeJ on Moving In: “I’ve had two “ethical non-monogamous” relationships (to subhubphx: I love that term :)) and though my lovers have spent many…Sep 19, 12:51
  • Vikter on Moving In: “I’m not sure that anyone is suggesting a long term kind of thing for Andrew, I certainlyam not. As you…Sep 19, 11:33
  • mstara on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: “So being a little bored this week I thought I’d try the questionnaire on Martin. Here’s his responses. 1.     How do…Sep 19, 09:13
  • Emma on Moving In: “I don’t think caging Andrew fits the dynamic that he and I have built. Andrew is a friend with a…Sep 19, 08:44
  • sirpaulcorpur.resident on An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?: “Dear Emma, Thank You for explaining Your reasons, because it is exactly what i was expecting. i do appreciate Your…Sep 19, 07:34
  • SubScott on Moving In: “Has there been any discussion or temptation for Andrew to be caged in the event of him moving in?Sep 19, 04:55
  • Brian on Moving In: “Emma, Just read your post Newness. My post not needed at all. You guys are on top of this. 🙂Sep 18, 20:57
  • Brian on Moving In: “Hi Emma, While my marriage was an awesome FLR, I am a switch and in a prior relationship, I had…Sep 18, 20:35
  • Emma on Moving In: “Yeah, I haven’t really blogged about it much and you haven’t really missed much of anything. Although it seems pretty…Sep 18, 16:00
  • subhubphx on Moving In: “How exciting! I was wondering how things were going in the “Andrew” department. I don’t recall seeing seeing much being…Sep 18, 13:20
  • Vikter on Moving In: “I enjoy the mechanics of it being enforced by my wife, that part is pretty firmly in place. We are…Sep 18, 09:47
  • Emma on Moving In: “It is an interesting distinction from chastity enforced by the female to shared enforcement or male enforced. They each have…Sep 18, 09:37
  • Vikter on Moving In: “That would be a huge life change, it be hard to pull back from quickly if anyone felt like it…Sep 18, 08:55
  • Emma on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “It is a delicate conversation and sometimes it doesn’t go the way we want it to go. Just be supportive…Sep 18, 08:13
  • Kevin on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Hello, your article made me think so I decided to tell my girlfriend about my resentful. Unfortunately she took me…Sep 17, 21:37
  • subhubphx on Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101): “JD, I absolutely applaud you. You and I have spoken before, and although i understand your hesitation to speak to…Sep 17, 18:54
  • Herma on Having Fun With It: Only Two Players: “I hope everyone is familiar with Ester Perel. This podcast mostly celebrates the wife’s claim of sexual freedom from culture,…Sep 17, 17:30
  • mrbillsails on Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes: “That first video was hilarious! Tears in my eyes from laughing. I have to show that to my wife!Sep 17, 13:49
  • jd on Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101): “Hi Subtom, Emma and others, I wrote this question (and a few others) in what remains of Yoga Girl’s blog…Sep 17, 05:21
  • Brian on An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?: “Wanted to make a quick comment on your statement. “Of course his orgasm is really only achieved in one way…Sep 17, 03:59
  • Emma on Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101): “That sounds challenging. When you talk to her about your needs, what does she say about it?Sep 16, 15:21
  • subtom on Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101): “Wife my wife’s absent libido, i fear she would just lock me away, happy to have me never ask again.Sep 16, 13:42
  • subhubphx on An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?: ““Am I a quack doctor? Nope. I am not a doctor at all. I am someone that you met on…Sep 16, 12:18
  • mstara on An Introspective: Why do I write what I write?: “So you’re not a counsellor in the sense of someone who has taken an examination in a particular subject, but…Sep 16, 10:33
  • Emma on Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes: “Glad you enjoyed! I certainly didn’t think them up, no need to give me credit. Just get a laugh and…Sep 16, 04:27
  • DianeJ on Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes: “These are hilarious Emma. You made my day. I plan on using them, giving you full credit of course! DianeSep 15, 22:38
  • Kevin on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “of course I feel a huge negative resentful … the problem is that I do not live up to my…Sep 15, 21:34
  • Vikter on Pegging Comedy: Videos Jokes and Memes: “The jokes alone get a 5 star. Thanks for the laugh.Sep 15, 16:54
  • Twolf on What Kind of Man: “Hi, I’m no expert by any means. In fact I came here looking for help too just a few weeks…Sep 15, 16:42
  • Vikter on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “Most people stumble over their words in public speaking, I wouldn’t feel bad about that. Same with not liking the…Sep 15, 02:19
  • Emma on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “I tried to do a podcast because it seemed like a next step to doing this blog but I can’t…Sep 14, 23:18
  • Emma on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “I see what you mean. Let me play with a few different titles. Edit: I updated the name. Thank you…Sep 14, 23:02
  • Emma on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Do you find yourself resentful of your girlfriend? Would she be open to trying some alternative things to keep the…Sep 14, 23:01
  • jd on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Hi Eve, Great story and thanks for sharing it. For me two related things make it so interesting or impressive.…Sep 14, 22:50
  • Kevin on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Hello, Very nice article (again)! I find myself in your interview (guy side). My girlfriend suffers from vaginismus and we…Sep 14, 21:11
  • Vikter on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “***GASP*** SHE WAS YOU ALL ALONG!Sep 14, 20:16
  • Emma on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “Maybe she is my long lost sister.Sep 14, 20:01
  • Vikter on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “Emma, I feel like you found a girl crush, in the best possible way. I’m pretty sure I have a…Sep 14, 19:02
  • Eve on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Ouch that last one!!! You are too much. About the title I thought the same thing too but I thought…Sep 14, 17:53
  • Eve on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “I think we were both ready to try anything. This was a stretch from where he was comfortable but he…Sep 14, 17:50
  • HerNeeds on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “I don’t like your title of painful sex. I almost didn’t click on the email since I thought it would…Sep 14, 17:44
  • HerNeeds on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Did he struggle with social stigma of giving up control or manhood? Giving you control of his penis and allowing…Sep 14, 17:41
  • HerNeeds on Sexuality Has No Relation to Gender: “Our cancel culture at its finest.Sep 14, 17:37
  • Eve on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “It has been difficult but we are finding our way through it together instead of separately. Thanks to you for…Sep 14, 17:07
  • Vikter on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “Thank you for sharing. I feel like this is a topic that I know so little about that I don’t…Sep 14, 16:44
  • Vikter on Sexuality Has No Relation to Gender: ““they love women with red hair (like me)” For you friend.Sep 14, 16:23
  • subhubphx on Sexuality Has No Relation to Gender: ““Does that make me some sort of bigot, sexist or transphobe? Maybe. You tell me.” No! It does not. Not…Sep 14, 16:08
  • Vikter on Sexuality Has No Relation to Gender: “Once again, very sure you have my house bugged. My wife and I were talking about my sexuality a bit…Sep 14, 16:05
  • Eve on Endometriosis: When Sex is Painful: “This turned out great. Thank you Emma. I can answer some questions if anyone has them.Sep 14, 13:30
  • subhubphx on Pegging Goes Mainstream: “What a great post. I like the Young People Fucking one too because it’s fun, but I like the French…Sep 13, 20:50
  • Emma on Pegging Goes Mainstream: “Ooh that’s great. Thanks!Sep 13, 20:26
  • Hersissy on Pegging Goes Mainstream: “Hello how about 1970 movie Myra Breckinridge staring Rachel Welch. Great pegging seen.Sep 13, 20:09
  • Vikter on Pegging Goes Mainstream: “https://youtu.be/_3Wwf4gDwCQ Not exactly pegging, but a prostate state milking scene in road trip kind of counts. I think there was…Sep 13, 19:12
  • Emma on What Kind of Man: “I am not totally sure about this. I think mature metal, evotion wearables and holy trainer might make some too.…Sep 13, 00:23
  • elisaj on What Kind of Man: “Hello I am new, Single man. I have a question, maybe I am not doing it right or not trying…Sep 12, 23:31
  • subhubphx on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “I hear ya. I have been sending my wife articles (many, many blogs and forums from here) for some time.…Sep 12, 19:08
  • subhubphx on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “You’ve said it, she said it, we have all said it and agree it is essential …. communication. K and…Sep 12, 14:36
  • mstara on Pegging Frequency: “Thanks @Vikter that’s been helpful. We’ll keep tryingSep 12, 10:25
  • Emma on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “Yes! I really enjoyed it. I love her emphasis on communication. It truly is so important in all aspects of…Sep 11, 23:51
  • AandM on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “Oh, the wife is going to love her! Just found our evenings warm up entertainment! Thanks!Sep 11, 22:22
  • subhubphx on Caitlin V: Sex Coach: “She’s great ain’t she? Thanks for the shoutout.Sep 11, 20:28
  • Vikter on Pegging Frequency: “For foreplay, it usually involves my smaller dildo in place of a plug as I mentioned to loosen things up.…Sep 11, 15:04
  • mstara on Pegging Frequency: “Hi @Vikter Thanks for responding. It was his idea to try it, and I know that he’s tried anal plugs…Sep 11, 14:22
  • Vikter on Pegging Frequency: “Some questions for context if you don’t mind. Was pegging your idea or his? What kind of prep do you…Sep 11, 12:59
  • subhubphx on Pegging Frequency: “Makes total sense and thank you for replying.Sep 11, 11:53
  • mstara on Boyfriends for Married Women: “Happy to talk about our dynamic and answer any questions you may have. I do know you are accepting and…Sep 11, 09:49
  • mstara on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: “Perhaps some others of us should ask their husbands/partners those 20 questions too. If we did would you like them…Sep 11, 09:16
  • mstara on Pegging Frequency: “I’ve struggled to get it right with pegging. We have tried it a few times and we’ve bought a good…Sep 11, 09:10
  • Dirtbag57 on Boyfriends for Married Women: “Ms. MagicMolly I hit the hyperlink that appeared in the intro by Ms. Emma, which took me to a new…Sep 11, 03:28
  • DianeJ on Pegging Frequency: “You’re spot on with your comment. As you said, “couples…have their own unique and wonderful ways of living their wonderful…Sep 11, 02:16
  • Emma on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: “Thank you. Kevin responded to the questions already, I just need to find time to post. I didn’t forget!Sep 11, 00:35
  • subhubphx on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: “I don’t know how I missed this gem, but another amazing, articulate easy to understand article Emma. Those 20 questions…Sep 10, 22:12
  • subhubphx on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: ““However after a ruined orgasm and a return to the cage my husband’s state of mind remains focused on me…Sep 10, 21:28
  • subhubphx on Pegging Frequency: “Hi Diane. Clearly your amazing relationship with your husband (hubwife) is decidedly FLR in which I assume she/he has taken…Sep 10, 20:35
  • DianeJ on Pegging Frequency: “I’m one of the 100% pegging votes (so far). My response is strictly from the FLR perspective between me and…Sep 10, 17:39
  • Dirtbag57 on Why does it seem like he wants to be locked?: “Ms. Emma do I want to be locked up. The direct and short answer is no. But the correct answer…Sep 10, 12:25
  • Mknight on Locktober: Keys Are Sexy: “I can only speak for myself but if on top of locktober I also had to witness another man enjoying…Sep 10, 02:33
  • Hersissy on Pegging Frequency: “Ps great web site Emma lots of great info always look forward to getting a notice of another one of…Sep 10, 00:22
  • Hersissy on Pegging Frequency: “My wife’s sex drive isn’t what it used to be. We probably peg 95 percent of the time she does…Sep 10, 00:14
  • subhubphx on Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?: ““For a while I wasn’t able to fully take a lead despite the fact that I had the key. Now…Sep 9, 21:01
  • Marina on Male Chastity: A Recipe For Resentment?: “Thanks Emma. Interesting. I can suggest that to him. It has been a while that I kept him locked overnight…Sep 9, 20:54