I didn't exactly have a plan on how I'd introduce semen retention, and an ejaculation schedule to my husband after reading about it, but the method I chose was effective. When we started our love making session on Sunday, I mounted him and told him, "Your not cumming until Tuesday." I could tell by his stiffening member that this wasn't going to be a problem for him to accept these principles. The next three days of actually living it were another story. Just stopping when I was satisfied and not getting his ejaculation was very frustrating for him, but we got through it. A year later, he now accepts intercourse without ejaculation unless it's his special day as determined by his ejaculation schedule,
You'll find that once you've set an ejaculation schedule for your husband, his behavior will start to transform. Initially, our love making sessions went close to an hour or more. And in those early days after instituting his ejaculation schedule, I would receive close to fifty orgasms in a session. My husband was insatiable, and it was up to me to put the brakes on these long wet sessions. Currently, I end it at 9 orgasms generally. He would prefer to take me to at least at least 18 or 27 if I would let him. It's not that I don't want to, but it does get raw with all the thrusting so someone needs to make the call to stop what seems like an unstoppable train. I'm a well loved woman, but disengaging from the sex act is a challenge for him. I will go into detail about how to help your husband transition from thrusting to stopping without ejaculating when you're finished and completely satisfied in another article. It's a topic that deserves not to be given short shrift here.
It's been my experience that when a male is retaining, and you're applying daily sexual stimulation without release for him, that he wants to give far more service in the bedroom and household than you might feel comfortable taking. It was impossible for me to demand too much from him, and he even gets disappointed if I don't take enough. It won't make any sense to you until you see it for yourself, but he is experiencing a fundamental truth of his nature. He'll want you to take everything from him, and still try to top you from the bottom to get you to take more. If it gets too much for you, simply relieve the pressure with ejaculation.
It was a learning process. For instance, I found that sleeping in the same bed with a semen retaining male isn't conducive to sleep. He needs his own sleeping quarters, and I need mine. You'll have to see how that works for you, but I don't need to be woken up in the middle of the night by a raging hard on. I need my sleep. My master bedroom is off limits after 10pm. Your husband may have his own quirks that you may need to work through.
You'll also need to decide what kind of relationship you want. His ejaculation schedule will regulate that. Do you want to function like two equal adults, or would you like him worshiping you, groveling at your feet. From my experience, either one is possible. At first, I took and took pushing him to exhaustion. He was on such a tight leash, I think I broke him. Since, I backed off the dial, he's still submissive, but the relationship sails on a more even keel. 90% of the time I like to communicate with an equal. The only constant in our relationship is the ejaculation schedule and who it's enforced by. Everything else is shaped by what flows from that.
You'll need to deal with his ego as he could be insecure that you might lose respect for him as you take the lead training him how to service you in the bedroom and the rest of the house. You need to reassure him that you respect him even more than before. Tell him how proud of him you are that he's trying this, and how much you love it. Then tell him what chores need to be completed before ejaculation. My husband may be on a 5-7 day schedule, but that is contingent upon his behavior, and certain things getting done. If he's had an instance of poor behavior, his 7 day schedule just became 8 or 9 days. Would you like to try for 10? It corrects bad behavior instantly. I'm so proud of him. He now asks me me what my plans are for ejaculation day. It's a given that his release now comes through me.…
