Humiliation is deeply arousing for men. I'll be honest, I don't really get it. If he told me that his ex had bigger tits than me (she did), I'd just shrug and say "great". If I flip that around and tell him that my ex had a bigger cock than he does (he did) it makes him feel humiliated but also deeply aroused. I won't get into the why, that is a topic for other blogs that I've written and it is equally fascinating. Turns out that it is healthy to experience sexual humiliation assuming it is followed by conversation if you strike any chords.
Ouch! That is something I never would have never uttered six months ago but guess what, he loves it! It plays into his humiliation fetish and it gives him a rush of testosterone and oxytocin that he so craves. Is his dick small? It really depends on who you are comparing him to and the the importance of size to me. I've said before that there are many reasons I actually like them small specifically in a deep loving connection like I have with Kev. For the one night wham bam thank you ma'am I would probably prefer something larger/thicker and guess what, that is OK. That's why Kev has an arsenal of cock sleeves and why I have play partners equipped with different shapes and sizes.
I should first clarify that humiliation is frequently tied to the cuckold fetish but I want to emphasize that not all cuckolds are into humiliation and not all guys who enjoy humiliation are also into cuckolding. They are not mutually exclusive. For the fellas that enjoy both cuckolding and humiliation, they typically crave sexual submission. Remember that the penis is not the biggest sex organ on the male body, the brain is. Anyone can rub a penis but not everyone can stroke his mind in just such a way that he craves every inch of your being.
Humiliation in the cuckold context most often states something that could be an obvious conclusion such as:
- I am fucking him because he has a bigger dick than you.
- He is younger and better looking than you, I want him but I don't want you.
- You are sitting in the chair watching me fuck another man.
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