What sort of dominant talk can you use on your cuckold husband to show him that you love him and support this powerful fetish? What can you incorporate in your every day lives to show him that you value making him feel aroused. Your love for him flourishes because of not despite your cuckold relationship. It is important to do things to arouse him while you have other men show him what a real man is but it is even more important to remind him that he is your husband and how much you love him. Sex isn’t everything and having a man/men who are good at sex is key to a fulfilled life but having an emotional partner is priceless and irreplaceable. Sexualizing his lack of performance or endowment is just a way to come to terms with the relationship dynamic that you are fostering together. Just because he fills one need but not another doesn’t mean that he isn’t deserving of your love and affection but a cuckold husband’s love languages are different. A date night speaking directly to his love language will undoubtedly look quite different than a traditional date night. Sure you can do a traditional date night but that is forgetting who he is as a person and his specific needs as a partner.

We also need to make the distinction of what kind of partner you are. Are you fully embracing the cuckold lifestyle and the cuckold fetish or do you simply embrace the sexual freedom. I find that women who enjoy the cuckold lifestyle primarily for their sexual freedom don’t generally enjoy the humiliation aspect. For those women, I’d suggest stopping here and I’d recommend that simply invest emotionally in your husband as you would any other man. Don’t do something directly for the sake of the need of his fetish because he will only ask more and more, eventually leaving you unfulfilled because it doesn’t feel natural to either of you. On the other hand, if you are into the cuckold fetish you may find some of these more humiliating ideas arousing as well. I personally find the humiliation side of things an important part of the cuckold lifestyle, it allows us to continue the cuckold lifestyle and feelings when another partner is not present. Humiliation is as important and powerful as actually being with someone and is about reinforcing the “my pleasure comes first” attitude of the cuckold relationship. Many women who actively engage in the cuckold fetish take a tremendous thrill in engaging in a fetish that is empowering and rides on the coattails of sexual liberation.

Humiliation for a man is appealing because it is a very “in your face” way of telling your partner “I choose you despite all of these flaws” and “I’m yours because I love all of these pieces of you.” For other women, especially those who are typically sweet and caring, letting their bitchy flag fly gives an almost therapeutic way to have domain over another person and the power from doing this from a place of safety can feel almost cathartic.

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What are some things I can say to really turn my cuck husband on?

  • Drop your pants and get your little penis hard. I want you to stand there with that little dinky thing out and thank me for finding real men to satisfy me in all of the ways you can’t. Good. Now apologize for that little excuse for a penis.
  • That’s right baby, you are a pathetic excuse for a husband. Your little cock just doesn’t do it for me. I have to fuck other guys to be happy. Most men know how to please their wives so they don’t have to stray but not you. You have to share me because your pathetic little dick doesn’t measure up. If I sound frustrated its because I am. I want what other wives have, real men not pathetic cucks.
  • I want you to invite a friend over to watch the game on Monday night, we can sit on the couch and then I’ll go change my clothes and get more comfortable and come back with something a little bit more revealing. Then I want you to encourage my flirting and make your friend feel safe to fuck me on our couch in front of you.
  • I’m back from my date lover! You know how we talked about how you prefer that I use condoms with my bulls? Well since you and I decided that you will go pussy-free I think it puts that decision in my hands. Now lay on the bed so you can taste my decisionmaking skills.
  • Look at you. Only a pathetic bitch like you would be getting hard while watching your wife being fucked by a real man.

What are some things I can do to turn my cuck husband on?

  • SPH can be fun, start calling his little penis cute or a little boy cock. A name like dicklet can go far.
  • Be indifferent or disappointed when he wants to fuck. Keep asking for him to go deeper and deeper but get visibly frustrated when he cannot. Stop the sex and ask him to finish himself off while you go on tinder or social media.
  • When you allow him to masturbate, make him cum in his hand and take his load to the bathroom and flush it down the toilet because nobody will want his pathetic worthless load.
  • Allow him to masturbate but only to videos or images of you pleasing other men, he should be conditioned to cum off your pleasure and rewarded with orgasm only for encouraging you to get your needs met elsewhere.
  • Have a conversation unrelated to sex while he is fucking you, ask him about work or something almost guaranteed to make him get soft or out of the mood. If he gets frustrated, he can stop and masturbate. If he doesn’t he can continue until you tire of it.

What does marrying a cuck look like?

My personal preference in the bedroom is to have other ways of making love and saving the actual penetration for more dominant or better endowed men and that makes for some rather fascinating bedroom play and dialog together. To each their own but that’s the way ours flows, especially when Kev is locked.

I find the idea of my partner watching me with another man highly erotic. To see him getting pleasure as I receive pleasure is absolutely incredible. I love when he cleans me up, there’s nothing more erotic than being taken care of in every way imaginable. When my boyfriend/bull watches as my husband cleans me, it simultaneously shows submission and acceptance from my husband and is part of the reclamation process. There is nothing expressed but pure love and loyalty from a man who is willing to clean his wife in such a way.

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When my husband’s sexual release is tied to my own, he is not allowed to cum until I’ve cum with my lover or until we are home, it takes the focus away from “my turn”, “me next” of a typical sexual scenario and makes him want nothing more than for me to receive pleasure.

The cuck has left the building

When the cuckold teasing and feelings goes back into the emotional boxes, life returns to normal. It isn’t realistic to have a 24/7 cuckold relationship because sex shouldn’t take up that much agency over your day to day lives. Your sexuality is a way to bring the two of you together and give you a deeper connection in whatever ways you choose. I can think of nothing that taps more deeply into our hormonal responses than cuckolding and cuckold humiliation. As such, there should be lots of conversation and discussion about the things you tease him about. Assuming informed consent and deep and honest communication are key to your marriage, you are in for a good time together. If you ever aren’t having a good time, be quick to hit the pause button and navigate it freely and openly together.

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