In the complex world of human relationships, desire and intimacy can often take unexpected turns. For some couples, the conventional path may not always be the most fulfilling, and exploring unconventional dynamics can bring a fresh wave of connection and passion. One such dynamic involves a woman who no longer desires her husband sexually but finds excitement in engaging with other men in front of him to spark jealousy and rekindle their bond. While this scenario might sound unusual or downright unappealing to many, it can be a positive way for both partners to reconnect and rediscover their relationship.
It's not uncommon for desire within a long-term relationship to ebb and flow. Various factors such as familiarity, routine, stress, and evolving individual needs can impact sexual attraction between partners. For some women, the initial spark of passion may wane over time, leading them to seek new forms of excitement and arousal. This does not necessarily mean that the emotional bond with their partner has weakened; rather, it's a natural progression that can happen in any relationship. Many couples mistakenly see the decrease in sexual enthusiasm as a decrease in overall relationship investment. In many cases this is quite the opposite. Relying and trusting a partner for many years shifts the partner (typically female) relationship energies from sexual to familial. This is great and a wonderful progression for a relationship but it makes desire different. Instead of desire being spontaneous it often shifts to responsive. Again, this isn't a problem but it means that the woman may not feel comfortable or even to open to initiating sexual activity, she may need her partner to initiate. Even then, she will need to be open minded to sexual activities because she may not feel initially excited or turned on by the idea. This is all a very normal progression of a mature romantic relationship.
Jealousy is often viewed negatively, but in controlled and consensual contexts, it can serve as a powerful tool to reignite passion and interest. When a woman engages with other men in front of her husband, it can evoke a sense of competition and desire in him. Denying sexual contact while engaging with others can evoke intense feelings of missing out. This controlled jealousy can reignite the excitement and urgency that may have faded over time, reminding both partners of their desire for one another.
Men often feel an intense validation that their wife is still desirable and desired by another man. When she gives herself to another man in a sexual context but denies her husband he questions everything and it can be quite the emotional roller coaster. Women on the other hand feel an incredible amount of control and ownership of their sexuality by turning things on their end. The feeling of denying one's partner while enjoying someone else can be nerve wracking at first but once you learn to enjoy the reactions of your partner. He will enter a pit of depravity as he subconsciously wonders exactly what is going on, even when he is fully excited and interested in the idea. I personally am not overly interested in sexual activity unless Kev is present and watching, that's a new dynamic for us and it is incredibly curious to learn about myself. I enjoy watching him and fixate on his emotions as much if not more as my own pleasure.
In the context of a consensual non-monogamous relationship, small penis humiliation (SPH) can serve as a dynamic way to explore power dynamics and deepen intimacy between a wife and her husband. By openly discussing and comparing her husband's penis size to her boyfriend's larger one, the wife can create a space where both partners can explore their fantasies and fetishes, leading to greater emotional and sexual satisfaction. This open communication can strengthen their relationship by ensuring both partners feel understood and valued, even within the scope of sexual humiliation.
Moreover, the act of denying her husband sexual intercourse while teasing him about his inability to satisfy her in the same way her boyfriend can, can heighten sexual tension and anticipation. This dynamic can make their interactions more exciting and fulfilling, as it builds an intense sense of longing and desire. The husband, knowing his actual physical limitations are a part of the play, can find arousal and pleasure in the tease and denial, which can ultimately enhance his sexual gratification of any sexual intimacy that she provides. Such practices can also reinforce the wife's sense of control and support a wife's powerful female dynamic, fulfilling their respective desires within the relationship framework.…
Everybody wants something different out of a relationship and there is no specific thing that works for everybody. You have a very distinct split with two sides to you it seems. The one side that flourishes an emotional bond with Kev and the other which is more animalistic. You probably are more on the extreme side when it comes to this split thus why you have a blog on the subject. Most people probably fall somewhere in the middle of those two sides in some variation. What everybody wants is different though. That thrill you talk about could mean something different to another. One couple could get that thrill through the pursuit of status/power or perhaps a shared interest/belief/hobby. That spark doesn’t have to be sexual. If I had to just guess, I would say that this article would probably be beneficial to a couple that has established a safe and comfortable life for themselves, and it injects an element of chaos and tolerable pain that you respond to like a vaccine would in your body but for others they have a totally different reaction. Maybe for them, their lives are very stressful or bad and they get the same satisfaction you seek but through emotional comfort. They probably would view this as disrespect, and it could end the relationship.
I like this observation and I’ve often wondered if our/my life is simply too easy. Our parents and grandparents dealt with hardship and loss much more frequently. Look for example at infant mortality, parents would have 9 kids and only two would live to be teenagers. World Wars, the great depression are things that my generation hasn’t experienced. While I don’t wish hardship on anyone, I wonder if the lack of highs and lows and the changed mindset in sticking to jobs has changed our thought on relationships. Just some thoughts which I feel might add nuance to the point you made. Thanks!
There is nothing wrong with having an easier life. It is the goal really. The more we evolve and are able to spend less time with various types of work activities related to survival and daily living, the more we free up to do other things. Emotional exploration, pursuit of purpose and meaning, etc. Complex human emotional capacity has been the cornerstone to everything that we have done from the very beginning up until now. No matter how much we grow as a society, what you wrote about in this blog post will still be as relevant 5000 years from now as it is today. The mind and body will be the same for a very long time. Relationships were about survival as much as anything in your grandmother’s day but you get to live better as they will be living better than us 100 years from now. Imagine what the art of cuckolding manipulation will look like then.
Have you thought about preparing a very special omelette for him? 😉
What do you mean?
I saw a film with my wife long time ago in which a wife masturbated her lover until the end. Then she massaged her lover’s penis with pasta de pizza. She prepared a pizza for her husband with the mixture, and served it to her husband for dinner.
It was very arousing for both of us.
Hello, Emma,
“Why don’t you masturbate while we watch a video of my boyfriend and I?”
“His lack of sexual adequacy should be a topic of frequent conversation and denying him should be the new normal”.
For me, more than his lack of sexual inadequacy, what would put me in subspace would be the fact that his new position is being a cuckold and servant husband and not a traditional one, with his duties related to that position: preparing his wife for her encounters with her boyfriend, watching them have sex or supporting her to have a wonderful sex life with others.
Admitting jealousy is something humiliant and arousing.
Thank you very much for your post.
” … One such dynamic involves a woman who no longer desires her husband sexually but finds excitement in engaging with other men in front of him to spark jealousy and rekindle their bond.”
For me, this is game over, relationship over, marriage over.
Hello,
According to the drawings, there’s nothing about racism, but I think that hubbies feel specially inferior to black men.
Almost in films, black men are better endowed and the contrast of the colors of the skins is nice.
I personally don’t find it incorrect to see a dark skin man as a powerful lover who can make the wife have better orgasms.
I personally love seeing wives cuckolding their little hubbies with these powerful lovers. It increases the sperm competition.
Thanks.
Not a big fan of SPH for me, but I understand and respect the dynamic and all the fun role playing than can become of it. My wife mentioned early on her ex husband was much bigger, but reassured me I was getting the job done. Even with that, it does linger in your thoughts, and reminds you of your role in a bigger world.
The picture at the top is quite appropriate, however the young man in bondage should be displayed with a locked chastity cage, while his wife is making love to her bull. You have the right idea though.
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