Today we will dive headfirst into one of my favorite topics: the perfect penis size. Now, before you roll your eyes and think, “Here we go again with the size debate,” let me promise you – this isn’t your usual “bigger is better” spiel. We’re talking variety, satisfaction, and why sometimes, variety is the spice of life. So let’s get real about what it means to have the perfect penis size. Or should I say, penii?
First things first – the idea that there’s one perfect penis size is a total myth. Sure, we’ve all heard stats like the “average erect penis size is about 5.16 inches” or that women often report 6 to 7 inches as their ideal. But these numbers are just that – numbers. What really matters is how those inches are used.
Why Two is Better Than One
Now, let me introduce a concept that might just blow your mind: the perfect size isn’t one, but two. Think about it. Variety is the spice of life, and our bodies are designed to appreciate more than one type of pleasure.
Let’s talk about the big guy first. You know, the one who fills you up and leaves you feeling pleasantly stretched. My boyfriend/bull is around 8 inches and thick – a real dream for those times when you want that full sensation. But, here’s the thing – while he makes me feel utterly delicious and full, he often misses those intricate little spots that make my toes curl.
Enter my husband, Kev. He’s on the shorter, slimmer side but let he knows how to use it. He hits every single one of my spots with precision. He better, we’ve been together long enough that he knows all my nooks and crannies. We all know that G-spot orgasm can be a bit elusive, right? Well, Kev’s size allows him to maneuver in ways that the bigger guy just can’t.
Stats and Surveys: One Size Does Not Fit All
Now, you might be thinking, “Emma, aren’t there stats about the perfect penis size?” Yes, there are. Many surveys ask women to pick their ideal size, but here’s the kicker – they can only choose one option. That’s like asking someone to pick their favorite dessert and only giving them one choice forever. Ridiculous, right?
According to various surveys, the most commonly cited ideal size is around 6 to 7 inches. But here’s a fun fact: these surveys often fail to consider that women’s preferences can vary widely based on the context. Just as we have different desires at different times, our preferences for penis size can shift. The surveys ask women to select just one response.
Our bodies are designed for more than one type of pleasure. Imagine limiting yourself to just one flavor of ice cream forever. Boring! The same goes for sex. Embracing variety not only keeps things exciting but also ensures that we’re fully satisfied.
Variety isn’t just about physical pleasure – it’s also about psychological fulfillment. Knowing that you can experience different kinds of pleasure with different partners can be incredibly empowering. It breaks down the false notion that we need to fit into a one-size-fits-all mold when it comes to sexual satisfaction.
My Personal Experience
In my personal life, having both my boyfriend and my husband provides the perfect balance. One fills me up and leaves me feeling deliciously stretched, while the other knows exactly how to hit all the right spots. Neither is better than the other – they both bring unique pleasures that keep my sex life vibrant and fulfilling.
Talk to your partners about what you enjoy and what you’d like to explore. Communication is key to discovering what truly satisfies you. Don’t be afraid to express your desires and to seek out the variety that brings you the most pleasure. If you are married and want to explore something new and different, talk to your partner about what that looks like for you. Not sure about adding a third to your bedroom, toys can be wonderful way to hit some very different spots.
Conclusion
So, there you have it – the perfect penis size isn’t one, but two, or three. Embrace the variety, communicate, and most importantly, give yourself permission to enjoy all the pleasures that your body is designed to experience.
Until next time, stay curious, stay adventurous, and remember – variety truly is the spice of life.
It’s true, 2 is better than one. Many women in FLR’s will have sex primarily with the well endowed bull, while their locked up husband or B/F will be released for occasions when she wants a more gentle, intimate type to sex with lots of cuddling. Once done, he’ll be relocked for next time.
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I can also follow the idea that two different sizes can be a “two nice different way” to have pleasurable moments. In the beginning of our cuckolding adventure my girlfriend searched a bigger and more performing penis then mine, what was beside the better use of his penis the size being bigger then me with only my 5 inches. So in the beginning of our relationship she even did not want to have PIV with me anymore because she liked so much the deep and more complete bodily sensation of receiving a bigger penis in her and also feeling more strongly the contractions when her lover came in her because of the tighter inner contact she had with him. It also was for her the discovery of a deeper orgasm, being vaginal and cervical unlike she was getting with me only clitoral orgasm now and then and a very few times a vaginal orgasm. She also liked that his semen did not come out immediately after having had intercourse and stayed longer in her when she had such a deep orgasm with him. However after some months she gave it a try to have PIV with me again and was a kind of revelation for both of us. Instead of having intercourse to have a physical orgasm it shifted to a more emotional and mental satisfaction for both of us. I did come and she did not, but anyhow she was very satisfied of the more gentle and loving feeling instead of a kind of thorough intensity taking control over her being penetrated by a much bigger penis. Mentally it was for her in one case with a bigger penis in her “being controlled” and “overpowered” and with a smaller penis more giving love and satisfaction, being more in charge to allow to come in her instead of being taken what in bot cases is a form of powerplay and she loves powerplay anyhow being dominated by her lover and being submissive and at home dominating me, and me being the submissive. In that way she can enjoy both worlds of mental and emotional states. I personally like to be all the time the submissive (except in my professional life where I want and are mostly the boss..). I also discovered personnally and enjoyed this size-duality. Early in our cuckold-relationship we explored pegging and it unlocked my submission even more but also my bisexuality what made me explore with time having sex with men also in a submissive role. And I also experienced the same journey that my girlfriend experienced with big and smaller penises. Once I got some experience in receiving a penis and got my first full body orgasm, yes indeed it. was my quest to find lovers with a big dick that also could stimulate my inner door and dominate me profoundly and providing me the best orgasms ever. However one day having sex wit a very loving and gentle guy with a small(er) penis I experienced myself that other way of satisfaction of giving him myself instead of me taking me. And allowing him to fuck me instead of him obliging me to be fucked by him with a bigger dick. It also has the different meaning when you have bare sex, in one case you get inseminated in the other you allow to be inseminated. Both ideas and actions that I like but that are both very enjoyable. In the mean time I am many years pussyfree and almost impotent anyhow what makes that my girlfriend has only PIV with other men because she wants it but also because it is almost not practically possible. We still pleasure and pamper each other in other ways but I can not give her “the smaller penis joy” anymore what she now seeks also other men now and then. So I can definitely confirm the interest of the “two-size” idea! 🙂