Male Chastity: Locktober is the Perfect Time to Try!

You’ve probably heard whispers about Locktober—the annual month-long celebration of male chastity. Don't get scared off by the idea of locking him up for an entire month, that can be quite a commitment - Locktober can be whatever you want it to be. Whether you’re new to male chastity or already exploring orgasm denial with your partner, this is the perfect time to dip your toes in the kink for a little fun.

Let’s get into the basics of male chastity. In its simplest form, male chastity is about putting your partner’s penis in a cage, locking it up, and controlling when or if he’s allowed to have an orgasm. Sounds straightforward, right? But there’s so much more to it than just locking him up. Male chastity is about control, anticipation, and building intimacy through sexual denial. It’s about flipping the power dynamic and letting you, as his partner, hold the keys (literally!). And, honestly, it’s a lot of fun for both of you.

Orgasm denial is the foundation of male chastity. The idea is that by denying him the chance to orgasm, you create a heightened sense of sexual energy and anticipation that builds over time. Even if you’re not the naturally dominant type, there’s something really exciting about holding the key to his release—both metaphorically and physically. The longer you deny him, the more intense that sexual energy becomes. And here’s the kicker: it’s not just about making him suffer. The keyholder (that’s you!) gets to enjoy all that extra attention, affection, and desire that comes from a denied man. It’s a win-win!

So, how do you get started? First, you’ll need to find the right male chastity device for your man. These come in all shapes, sizes, and materials, so there’s a lot to explore! If you’re new to this, I’d recommend starting with something simple like a plastic cage. It’s lightweight, easy to clean, and comfortable for beginners. Most devices come with adjustable rings to find the perfect fit. You don’t want it too tight, but you also don’t want it too loose, either—it needs to be snug enough to stay on, but comfortable enough for him to wear for an extended period. It should leave a little extra room for him to grow without being too uncomfortable but not too much.

The key is to start small and go easy. If you’ve never tried male chastity before, don’t go locking him up for days on end right out of the gate. That’s a surefire way to freak both of you out. Instead, try a few hours at first, maybe an evening together. You can even make it playful: lock him up and then go about your normal evening routine, knowing that the whole time, his cock is securely locked away. Trust me, that simple awareness can be thrilling for both of you. Wait a while before going overnight, overnight erections can be painful in a device so warming up to it is helpful.

And don’t forget—you’re in control! When the time comes to unlock him, you can decide whether to give him release or keep him denied for a bit longer. It’s all about building anticipation and making him crave that release. But remember, it’s not about punishment (unless that’s your thing); it’s about playful control and connection.…