Hey everyone. I know that nobody will read this blog because it is related to periods. As if menstrual cycle is some sort of scary and unsexy thing, nobody reads blogs about them. Society teaches us to be afraid of them and society tells us to hide them as something that we should be inherently ashamed of. Every woman has them and as a service to men, we typically do just that. Shielding their gentle ego from the reminder of what every woman deals with each month. Every woman knows that her body moves through intricate rhythms and those rhythms have their ups and downs and change our baseline of reality. The menstrual cycle is far more than just a series of biological functions; it’s a complex interplay of hormones that touch every part of our being, influencing our emotions, thoughts, and how we connect with our partners. For those engaged in an alternative sexual relationship style, understanding these fluctuations can lead to a deeper, more empowered connection that meets both partners’ needs and helps navigate the natural ebbs and flows of life.
First and foremost, let’s recognize how your body shifts throughout the month. The menstrual cycle has four main phases: the menstrual phase, the follicular phase, ovulation, and the luteal phase. Each stage comes with its own set of hormonal changes that influence not just your physical state but also your emotional well-being. A consensual cuckold relationship, at its best, is one that adapts to these changes with understanding, communication, and empathy.
When hormonal fluctuations cause irritability or emotional sensitivity, some women find it challenging to manage these emotions in traditional ways. Here’s where the beauty of this dynamic can come into play: the woman holds the power to channel these intense feelings constructively. A cuckold relationship is built on communication and understanding, so why not use that to your advantage? Acknowledging that during certain times of the month, your needs for control or expression might shift can turn these fluctuations from something to ‘deal with’ into something to embrace and leverage.
During menstruation, estrogen levels drop, which can lead to feelings of fatigue and lower moods. It’s a time when many women feel the most vulnerable and in need of comfort and care. In the context of a cuckold relationship, this phase can be perfect for emotional reconnection. Communication is essential during this time; let your partner know how you’re feeling and what you need. Maybe it’s reassurance, maybe it’s pampering, or perhaps it’s simply the comfort of knowing that your desires and boundaries are being respected.
Some women find that this phase, with its inherent need for reflection and slower pace, is ideal for gentle, emotional play. This could involve reinforcing the emotional bonds between you and your partner, strengthening the trust that is so crucial in any relationship. Whether that’s through shared moments, deep conversations, or non-sexual acts of intimacy, this phase can be a time to nurture the connection that fuels your relationship.
Once the menstrual phase concludes, the follicular phase begins, marked by a gradual rise in estrogen. This phase often comes with a boost in energy, positivity, and confidence. You may feel more inclined to take charge and assert your desires more freely. It’s an excellent time for exploration within your dynamic, trying out new scenarios or fantasies that may have felt too intense or out of reach during other times of the month.…
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No one commented on this post. We were married at 19 and 21. In our marriage there was a lot of menstrual sex. It’s part of the female body. Yes it can be messy, but if you look at all good sex gets messy. .