Its Not All Fun and Games

Its not all fun and games. But sometimes it is.

This can be tough for the male but here are some games to make the teasing a bit more exciting for both of you. Remember that any dates on the calendar can be changed at any time by the partner. Delegating control is the point so this whole this is up the her discretion. 

You tell me a number and I'll unlock you tonight and stroke your cock exactly that many times. No more. No less. I'll lock your cock up exactly that many days before we try again. Pick too low and you will be regretting it when you are left frustrated and helpless until next time. Pick too high and I'll keep stroking after you cum which will be agonizing knowing that each stroke a wasted day you are going to stay locked.

Put 9 blue marbles and one white one in a bag. Every evening, the male and the partner have a conversation about how the day went. Every time the male has a day where he puts his partner ahead of the needs of his locked penis he gets the chance to draw a marble. If the marble is blue, the partner gets a massage, oral sex or something of their choosing to help relax her. If the marble is white, the male is allowed to masturbate. If the couple is in to pegging, you can replace two of the blue marbles with red ones and the male is pegged when the red marbles are drawn. If you are a techy couple or don't have marbles laying around, there are customizable "wheel of fortune" type phone apps (like wheelofwhat for iphone)  that can substitute for the marbles.

Get a deck of cards, only use the joker, 4 aces, 4 kings and all number cards. The partner would let the male draw one card after every day of good behavior. If no good behavior no card would be drawn and we would hope behavior would improve the next day. The joker means blow job with ejaculation, the aces mean ruined orgasm, the kings mean striptease from the partner with no release. The number cards mean that the partner would receive a massage, back rub, oral sex or perhaps a household chore.

Is there anything that males hate more than conversation? Ensure that all of your personal time isn't taken up with talk about his cage and how difficult of a time he is having. It would be great to have some conversation about your lives, common interests and family. Set aside some time and make sure that he is open and communicative with you. If he is inattentive or doesn't volunteer conversation, add a few days to his calendar. If he is attentive and participatory, keep the date the same or subtract a day to reward for exceptional behavior.…