FLR101 – Read this first

I'm a professional woman with a science and medical background as a primary care provider.  Don't take the fact that I'm a care provider as any special qualification about semen retention.  I just happen to be one.  I write this blog as only a woman sharing this experience with my husband.  I could be in any other profession and have the same opinion.  This is not medical advice.  Don't take it as such.  You will need to do your own due diligence in how it relates to your own particular health concerns.  So, as they say, consult your doctor. 

I am also a Yoga and Qigong  practitioner.  I found out about semen retention from a female reiki master that has a husband that practices it.  She's mentioned how fortunate she feels to have the benefits from a male that is retaining.  I was intrigued as I never heard of this concept.  Over the last year I've introduced semen retention to my husband, and he also has an ejaculation schedule which is enforced by  consequences that he agreed to.  Essentially, I requested that he not ejaculate except with my permission.  Having installed the principles of semen retention with an ejaculation schedule for my husband, I have seen amazing changes in our marriage, and I felt compelled to share my experience as I think other women might benefit from it.

 My husband has also experienced health and spiritual benefits from it.  As it does require refraining from ejaculation during intercourse, he does require support from me.  I think most western males will require assistance from the female in refraining from ejaculation.  But once the male is trained, I think the benefits I've realized will also translate to other women and their marriages.  That's my primary aim with this blog.  All I've done here is share my experience and offer it as food for thought.

Once these principles are installed in the relationship, it does tend to put women in the drivers seat but from a whole different perspective than a traditional FLR (Female Led Relationship).  To me it seems like the male is having his true nature revealed to him through practicing these principles with a woman's support.  Living these principles, the male realizes Plato's saying, "The god of love lives in a state of need," and his passion for his wife increases a hundred fold.  She becomes the perpetual novel female he always craves.  The courtship phase of the relationship extends into marriage for ......well, as long as these principles are practiced.  If this sounds interesting to you, stick around, and I'll explain how this works for us.  I  consider the first three entries the foundation of the incredible passion we have in our relationship:  semen retention,  the ejaculation schedule, and consequences for unauthorized ejaculation.

The following articles should be read in order.  They are my observations (not recommendations) of living with a male that's practicing semen retention, and how these principles might work for you. Warning: Profound uplifting, passionate and blissful changes may occur in your relationship.

Chapter 1…