There are a wide variety of medical conditions relating to male ejaculation; Premature Ejaculation, Inhibited Ejaculation and Retarded Ejaculation are just a few. Interestingly enough, each of them lists the number one cause of the condition as mental. Many of them suggest psychologists to get to underlying root causes or past emotional trauma. Several of them suggest some sort of medical concerns, and this is by no means a substitute for medical attention. This is simply a method of helping to take control of your sexual experience with a loving partner.
Sometimes ejaculation doesn't happen exactly when you want it to. Sometimes he finishes too soon, sometimes he takes too long. Finding the perfect medium can be difficult to reach and that can be frustrating for both partners.
Many ladies can achieve multiple orgasms but I think most of us would agree that the fun cums to an end, at least for a while whenever he finishes. Training (or evolving) your man can be incredible for both of you and is extremely easy to do using positive reinforcement and will allow him to cum naturally in a very short time.
Positive reinforcement is very simple, you provide praise when the desired behavior happens. If he cums when you want him to, give him praise. If he doesn't cum when you want him to, withhold praise. You need to start by subconsciously associating the pleasure and hormonal rush from his ejaculation with your praise. For about a month, use verbal cues every time he has an orgasm. Whether this is from mutual masturbation or sex, it doesn't matter. You just want to build a bond in his head.
You can do anything you like, whatever comes natural. It can be "cum for me" followed by praise or compliments. Perhaps just some moans of approval would be enough. In a previous blog called creating a fetish, I tried using a dog clicker although I ended up giving that up since I never seemed to have the clicker with me at the right moment so I didn't get too far with that project. The reality is, this isn't about creating a fetish, it is about conditioning him to subconsciously want to do what you want.
If he finishes too soon, simply withhold praise until you are ready for him to ejaculate. If he ejaculates without your praise, you simply don't offer it. Unfortunately the ejaculation itself is positive reinforcement but he will crave your praise and recognize your displeasure and absence of praise. If your fella is notoriously trigger happy, you may need to do a few sessions of mutual masturbation to build that link. You may even need to do refreshers as time goes on to help that bond get stronger.…
