Hey there, lovelies! Today I’m diving into a topic that's near and dear to my heart: respect and submission in cuckold relationships. Now, not all cuckold couples follow this path, but in our dynamic, it’s something we've grown into and an absolute must. Let me take you through how respect and submission to the bull can enhance your experience and make it outstanding for everyone.
In our relationship, which has undoubtedly made a significant shift into a cuckold relationship over the last year, my husband Kev and I have found that showing respect and submission to the bull is crucial. It sets the right tone and atmosphere, ensuring that everyone feels valued and appreciated. For us, it’s not just about the physical act but about creating a harmonious and respectful dynamic.
When Kev shows gratitude and respect to the bull, it elevates the bull's position in the experience. It’s about acknowledging the bull’s role in giving me pleasure and enhancing our relationship. This respect extends from the initial contact to every interaction, creating a positive and fulfilling experience. It also adds to the fantasy, of which the bull is coming in and saving the day by giving me pleasure that Kev is unable to.
Finding the right bull is the first step (duh), and it’s Kev’s responsibility to start the search. He scours websites (primarily Reddit and Feeld) but these may vary greatly depending on your area. Tasking Kev with finding someone that I find appealing takes the hardest part out of my hands and puts it into my loving husband's hands. Looking for someone who fits our criteria is a huge act of service and another way that he can show his acceptance and approval of this lifestyle. This process isn't just about finding someone attractive; it’s about finding someone who understands and respects our dynamic.
Kev takes the time to vet potential bulls, engaging in conversations and getting a sense of their personality and intentions. He looks for someone who will respect our boundaries and contribute positively to our relationship. This vetting process is where Kev first shows his submission and gratitude, thanking the bull for considering us and being part of our journey.
Once we find a potential bull, Kev shares photos and details with me. If I approve, we arrange to meet for a drink. This initial meeting is crucial—it’s where we get a feel for the bull’s energy and how well he meshes with us. There is never any expectation of the coffee or beer meetup leading to more and I don't think we've ever let it go further.…
