First things first, let’s get clear on what we mean by “bull.” In a cuckold dynamic, the bull is the man who gets to have all the fun with the wife or girlfriend, while the husband—our dear cuck—either watches, knows about it, or somehow plays a part. It’s all about the dynamic, the thrill and a bit of a power play. I mean, what is the bull's role anyway?
But here’s where it gets interesting. The bull isn’t just any guy off the street; he’s often chosen with care and intention. And, yes, ladies, that includes his physical attributes—particularly his size. But why is that such a big deal?
Now, I’ve heard this line many times: “If I’m going to do it with someone else, I’m going to make it worth it!” And honestly, who can argue with that? If you’re stepping outside the usual bounds of your relationship, why not go all in and choose someone who brings something unique to the table—or bed, in this case?
Size often becomes a deciding factor because it adds to the excitement and the experience. There’s something thrilling about being with someone who’s different from your partner in a way that’s… well, noticeable. The size is a certain type of contrast that can heighten the experience for everyone involved.
But here’s the kicker—size isn’t just about physical pleasure. It’s about the emotional and psychological impact on the cuck. You see, when the bull is bigger, it often triggers a deep, primal reaction in the cuck. Feelings of shame, inadequacy, and a sense of being overshadowed can stir up all sorts of emotions.
And while that might sound harsh, in a consensual and healthy cuckold dynamic, these feelings are exactly what some couples are looking to explore. The cuck’s feelings of inadequacy can actually fuel the erotic charge of the situation, creating a powerful emotional cocktail that’s impossible to ignore.…
Her pleasure is my privilege.
She enjoys good sex even after we married.
He gives her better than anything I can give her.
This is the only way it works for both of us.
Yes, I am a chastity cuckold.
“And for the cuck, knowing that his wife is with a man who’s bigger, stronger, or somehow more “alpha” can trigger those deep-seated feelings of inadequacy that make the whole cuckold dynamic so electrifying. It’s a way to explore those feelings in a safe, consensual space, where everyone is on the same page and knows what they’re getting into.”
I absolutely agree with you.
In many cases these feelings are even stronger when the wife’s lover is a black man. There’s nothing about racism.
In many cases black men are more athletic.
This could be compared to run 100m vs a black man in the olimpic games. The white runner has no opportunity to win.
Thanks.
Maybe slightly off topic but could I ask you a question about sleeping arrangements Emma?
I don’t think I have seen you stress this topic. Do you always sleep with Kevin or do you sometimes do sleepovers at a bull’s place? Or do you even invite the bull to spend the night with you in your bed and have Kevin sleep elsewhere?
All of the above at some time, my current boyfriend lives about an hour away so it makes the most sense to come to our house and he sleeps over. We have a queen bed and it sleeps three comfortably.
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When we were first discussing “another man” and the like, my hub always added the must have large appendage.
Eventually I asked him why?
He could learn practice study to improve things and believe me, he is that type of man.
However, the one thing he couldn’t do was change his modest size penis.
Prior to us meeting he confessed to trying pills, potions, diets, herbs and natural solutions.
Exercises. he loves the gym so when he told me about *pause and ask… Jelquing, I believe when he says he did it until it was raw.
Still not believing? Bless him, he introduced penis sleeves/cock sheaths and even though we have retired a few, we had close to twenty last count,
It was when he bought some higher end ones that, while it wasn’t said out loud, we knew it was going to happen and the cock would be large
So, Does size matter? YES it surely does!
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