The Cuckold Letter: You Both Deserve More

The most frequent email I receive is from men asking "how do I get my wife to cuck me" and the answer is, you don't "get" someone to do anything. You need to communicate your interest and you need to have open and honest communication about why you want what you want. Here is a sample letter to help communicate these needs to her.

Addressing such personal and sensitive topics requires careful consideration and empathy. It’s crucial to communicate openly and honestly, but also to approach the subject with respect for both your partner’s feelings and your own. Here's a draft for a letter that might help initiate a thoughtful and respectful conversation about your desires and needs:

Dear Wife,

I hope you know how much I value and cherish our relationship. We’ve shared so much together, and our connection means the world to me. I want to be open with you about something that has been on my mind and in my heart. I’ve been reflecting on our relationship and how we’ve been navigating our sexual needs and desires.

Lately, I’ve been feeling a sense of incompleteness in our intimate life, and I believe that addressing this could help us both find more fulfillment and strengthen our bond. I want us to have a deep, honest conversation about exploring a different dynamic that could bring us both the satisfaction and emotional connection we’re seeking.

I’ve been thinking about the idea of us engaging in a cuckold relationship, where you would have the opportunity to explore a fulfilling sexual connection with another partner who might better meet your needs. My hope is that this arrangement could also enhance our emotional intimacy and support, as I deeply care about your happiness and fulfillment.…