For those of you who are not familiar with CFNM, it is a type of scenario where women are clothed and men are nude. Arguably the most famous blog about CFNM is maintained by a woman named Marie and her blog is aptly named Marie CFNM. Check her blog out and enjoy this exclusive Q&A with Marie!
Hello Marie! I am learning about CFNM and wanted to reach out to you to answer some questions to help me understand CFNM and why you think it is so popular.
Marie is a common girl (now a woman) living in Europe, loving beaches, sun, and ... nude boys. I really like all the situations where males are naked with dressed females …
Since I was a little girl, I was curious about boys’ body and I enjoyed the opportunities to see my little friends’ dicks on display when changing swimsuit on the beach or in the pool. I didn’t know the term CFNM but I was really going into it!
Over the time I discovered that my passion for CFNM was shared by some college friends and more and more by other people … both females and males. I occasionally found some CFNM material in Internet, but it was mainly posed professional photos, not real life. So, in 2006 I decided to start a blog about real CFNM you can experience in everyday life in several situations. It got a great success and here we are!
This is only one of the several definitions and I have a different point of view. In porn CFNM is mainly close to Fendom and BSDM, but in real life is generally another matter. CFNM is a situation where dressed girls and women could enjoy the visual sensations of naked boys and men, generally consensual and not necessarily involving sex.…
Thanks for sharing this Emma. It’s wonderful!!
I think it’s safe to say that many men that allow their wives/gf’s to control their sexual activity, be it cages, semen retention, orgasm control, WLM’s, etc., find CFNM a very exciting prospect indeed. I know I do. Bucket list item in fact.
I’m somewhat familiar with Marie’s page and have visited it before. It’s a lot of fun and I enjoy it very much. Marie does put a wonderful innocence and fun to her site for sure!
I don’t have any personal experience with CFNM because Ms. K. and I are very private with our lifestyle and frankly have never the opportunity. How much fun would it be for a group of like-minded women to get together for a dinner party let’s say, to be served, entertained and waited on by their naked men, many of us in cages? It would be a tremendous amount of fun!
Recently I have wandering around the house naked (caged) and we both are enjoying that very much. I would very much like to attend one as well and like you said, if anyone is organizing one … let me/us know. ha ha Perhaps if it was arranged by the friends but still strangers I’ve made here, Ms. K. would allow it. he he.
Thank you! I haven’t been this excited to post one in quite some time. I intended to post it tomorrow but posted it this evening instead. I’m not a very patient person.
Oh come on now, you’re an incredibly patient person. It’s one of your best attributes. However, you’re entitled to something now when you’re excited … and clearly you were excited.
Love this post, we came within a second of going to our first cfnm event last weekend.
Do tell!
What is your favorite pic above? This one is mine, it reminds me of Kev and I.
My fave is the one with the naked butler standing patiently behind the woman working on her patio and indicative to how our life is evolving at home. So elegant.
I love the dynamic of it all but nudity just does nothing for me. I just prefer someone to be sexily dressed. I would like to create a new fetish, woman in comfortable sweatpants/scantily clad man. WSSM.
Love it but can I revise it to WYPBBM
women in yoga pants boxer briefs man
I love my yoga pants & love the look of well fitted boxer briefs with a nice cage-bulge up front.
Fantastic interview. As a male who loves CFNM I find it can be difficult to describe/articulate what it is about CFNM that is so appealing but this article said it all in ways I never could. Thanks for this one! I had to make an account just to express my appreciation.
I was enjoying CFNM for many years before I even heard of CFNM. It began with stripping off on camping trips. At first, I was among people I did not know – just whoever was camping in the same area. This was an area on a lake where campers and day visitors often went skinny dipping. I started camping there every chance I could get off from work and fell in love with my dick swinging freely in the presents of others. After several such trips, I started to include some of my friends and co-workers. Then I started being naked every chance I could. Over the years, I have tried to expand my nude world at hotel swimming pools and hot tubs, at the massage spa and on my dermatology exams. I would love an opportunity for a CFNM party, but do not know where to look.
Every time I discuss CFNM with lady friends they seem to find it uninteresting. I mean I like the reverse (Covered Male Nude Female) CMNF as in an art studio model. But I keep wondering how many women actually enjoy the idea of men walking nude around them because I never can find them although I’ve asked.
CFNM can be a very fun context for spanking and public embarrassment as playful discipline techniques. It’s acceptable only when legally allowed in public, or any private setting with consensual stripping and nudity.
Games and contests can be great ways to have men start out clothed, but gradually undress until totally nude in front of females who the men know, and females the men never met before the male game players lose rounds or contests, and end up finally pulling down their underwear to expose themselves completely for the women to enjoy watching and teasing.
I think the biggest hurdle to conquer here is the societal gap between female and male nudity. Female nudity is considered entertainment, whereas male nudity can (often at least) be considered self-gratification and/or threatening.
Female nudity often includes playfulness, frolicking, same-sex intimacy, and a host of other exciting aspects, but male nudity is usually stodgy, with the actors appealing uncomfortable and reluctant.
The exception appears to be the femboy/ladyboy image, thinner, weaker males who love performing and enjoy beauty and sensuality as a womyn would do, and not as a man would.
It would be refreshing to see more womyn expressing a preference for those sorts of males, who would be more submissive and obedient, trim and hairless, vs. the beefcake types that dominate male strip shows.
This a fascinating thought and you said some things that I’ve been trying to put into words for some time. Aside from your comment above, have you seen any further exploration down this thought tree? I’d love to explore and discuss it more. If I can work up enough of a compelling mental dialog, maybe even a blog at some point. Thanks for your comment Conway
I am glad you found my comments helpful. In response, I can share some thoughts with you.
When I was a kid in the 1960s, of course I read Playboy, like everyone else. I found most interesting “The World of Playboy”, the last page of the magazine, where Hugh Hefner shared some photos of his mansion parties and the events he sponsored. Many times, nude playmates would mingle in the crowd, serving drinks or simply providing entertainment by playing games or frolicking.
I was always fascinated by how those women could bring so much attention to themselves just by being nude, and I loved the power they had. The more vulnerable and exposed they were, the more powerful, confident, and secure they were, as everyone respected their boundaries. A man needs to prove himself to be powerful, but a womyn just needs to be noticed.
My research and reading over many decades suggests that womyn can internalize beauty, and they do so at an early age by wearing beautiful clothes, makeup, elaborate hair, and sexy accessories like stockings and elegant heels. Their power comes from just being a womyn, as Elise Sutton would have said.
Men cannot internalize beauty, so they must conquer it to possess it. That explains most male misbehavior, and the pushback against “sissies”, men who live in the world of softness and beauty that women can internalize, but is a mystery to most men. In the male world, that which cannot be conquered, must be destroyed. Perhaps the solution is a lesbian society where some males act as “aspirational females”, third parties in relationships that are also shared amongst relationships, with traditional males outside the social mainstream. If womyn were encouraged to be more visually-oriented, and men more sensory-oriented, we could have a more feminine world.
I do recall reading back in the 1990s that a strip club in New York City had a lesbian night on Sundays, where the female strippers would perform for female customers (in lieu of male customers). They did have some male servers in submissive roles (such as a ponyboy), and the concept was briefly successful. However, this was just an overlay on the male-dominated world of adult entertainment. A club owned by womyn, and for womyn, would offer a vastly different experience.
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